there are so many things wrong with this statement lol. the implication of you saying that people not liking this yaoi somehow making them vanilla actually tells me that you don’t know one thing about bdsm. because bdsm is built on consent, not romanticising rape. roses and champagne not only justifies rape but also excuses possession and control. and its not like the op is wrong. you defending people who defend this story is just defending the story with extra steps. neither the op said nor will i say to anyone not to read it but going out of your to defend it is so deeply unserious lmao
Thanks for being the only reasonable person in the replies, reading something and knowing it's wrong is one thing, like i mentioned before, no one is gonna read killing stalking and call them a good couple unironically, but this manhwa? I've seen people commenting on how ceasar is the best seme, and how cute the relationship is? Like fr? I thought we were all on the same page that this is the most toxic unhealthiest ship ever?
if you ask ten different people what vanilla sex means you would get ten different definitions. some definitions would certainly be wilder than others but none of them would include being shot and penetrated whilst bound and injured. i dont have to be an expert in bdsm to know that its not play when one person wants to stop and the other person doesn’t give a fuck because all they see is a hole. thats actually basic math.
I still can't believe ppl read this shit unironically and defend it with all their hearts, i mean yeah, most bl got that SA vibe to them at some point, but this manhwa went above and beyond and added murder attempt to the fold, defending that is like saying killing stalking is a fluffly love story.