Sorry for you and your mom but I'm sure one day your mom won't be able to take it anymore because right now she still full of love for your dad but the love like this have their own limits.
Thank you for your message. I really hope that day truly comes because it is painful to see my mother crying everytime it happens, but no matter what I say I can't believe she still won't leave him. She's the one hurting and it is clearly affecting her so why does she still let him in??? I worry about my own future, I just hope I don't become like my mother who gets blinded by her own feelings that she can't see her husband's shortcomings. I hope I will get to meet a man the opposite of that person I call dad. Just opposite of everything.
i experienced this before my mom also couldnt left my dad for more than 20 years i remembered when i was young she cried alomost every day and endured my dad's violent i also didnt get it why she had to tolerance. As time went by my mom told me that she did everything for her belove daughters sake. she didnt want me and my sister be sad for not having a father like other family. So she waited til me and my sis grow up and then she divored my dad but nowadays she still devote help taking care of my dad because he is paralysis while me and my sis have to work. i always feel thankful for my mother for everything she did for me and my sis.
This doesn't really irritate me the way my mother do. Seriously, my father cheated on her a LOT of times. She'll cry, tell me she won't let him stay with us anymore, then the very next freaking day she's back smiling together with him. Like I'm so freaking tired feeling angry for her because of that a''hole. Atleast this ML sincerely albeit dangerously loves his wife. Atleast FL loves him back. ML doesn't cheat, but really do things to have FL by his side, no matter how fucked up it is. If FL is okay with it, then eh okay I support. He won't cheat on her atleast. And would probably kill anyone who will hurt her. I can live with that. Just don't do shits next time to make her love you since she already loves you. And don't do things to hurt your second child. Just love them both, dangerously but sincerely.