I guess people have their own standards but I personally don’t understand the “we’re friends so we can’t be lovers because then we can’t be friends anymore.” Like…if you already love him now but keep saying being friends is better so y’all are barely together anyway due to this conflict, cuz you’re afraid when y’all get tgt and break up, and you’re still be in love, but can’t be friends and barely see each other, then you’re just back to the beginning again, being in love but can’t be friends…. it’s a paradox. Might as well just date and get it over with lol.
I guess people have their own standards but I personally don’t understand the “we’re friends so we can’t be lovers because then we can’t be friends anymore.” Like…if you already love him now but keep saying being friends is better so y’all are barely together anyway due to this conflict, cuz you’re afraid when y’all get tgt and break up, and you’re still be in love, but can’t be friends and barely see each other, then you’re just back to the beginning again, being in love but can’t be friends…. it’s a paradox. Might as well just date and get it over with lol.