Consent in BL

Yall always exaggerating as if there weren’t many bls where they ask for consent

Then please recommend some. Most of the good ones I've already read ╥﹏╥

The fact that we find asking for consent sexy coz there's too many grape/noncon scenes in bl manhwas these days is crazyyyy

If this is exaggerating to you then I'm sorry but most of what I've read have had grape/non-con on them. ╥﹏╥ I must be at the wrong side of the BL world so please enlighten me and show me the right path

Same here ┗( T﹏T )┛