Why is it soo difficult to live in your world guys?, why so.many expectations from the gir...

Why is it soo difficult to live in your world guys?, why so.many expectations from the girls? Damsel in distress? No matter if she's manipulative or simpl and dumb, easy going n loving or rude n egoistic , you'll always find a way to criticize the fl no matter the story no matter the plot n no matter the characters, women are still being so suppressed she's either a whore or a total bore? How is that justified