Me when I’ve never been in a relationship
The ones that disliked this comment I'm sure are condoning Garams behavior. He's in his own head and making up scenarios that haven't even happened then when his bf tried to tell him what actually happened he didn't want to hear it. Same as when Jk was upset about Garam not telling him how he feels about him bcz of the traumas from his ex... Garam wants his side heard and understood but fuck everyone else. That's not fair at all but think what you want ig.
His bf has treated him awfully in the past + he was homophobic towards him . Do u think he’d trust him completely after everything he’s done?
Then why date him in the first place? Me personally I'm not going to date someone I don't trust. Garam knew how the man was in the beginning so idk why everyone is acting like Garam is the unknowing victim when even after all the bad stuff that happened he forgot all the shitty things that man did to him and STILL decided to get into a freaking relationship with him bcz what? He drove him to the hospital to see his mother? Please.
Though that’s a good point, my point still stands . It’s not like he doesn’t 100% trust him, trust is earned! They still have a good relationship and obviously love eachother, it’s just the trust bit they struggle on
Understandable but let the man explain the bar situation so the trust can be built. Trust can't be built if there's no chances to build it. Garam is going to keep having these thoughts unless he lets Jk explain himself and give him the answers he's looking for. If he's not willing to listen why stay in the relationship? Just break up and leave each other alone. I don't think they love each other just yet if anything they have strong feelings towards one another because love would mean that they both are able to set aside their feelings to hear the other out.
Yeah I understand ^^ I just rlly dislike when ppl pit the blame on one person when a relationship is two ppl! Bad to Jk for treating him awfully in the past, bad to Garam for not letting him explain himself! ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
Garam is starting to seriously piss me off.