... and if you think about it, all this could have avoided. If Ume had pulled away from the start, Hara would have noticed his feelings. Since Ume didn't, and just tolerated it for 20 years, Hara's dumbest just assumed Ume would be by his side forever.
Ume's got a HUGE fucking heart... cause like, I refuse to chase someone, who's gonna be dating a bunch of other folks. Nope not me.