uh so i usually don’t comment but i’m seeing a lot of comments about abusive trope i stumbled on this from the main page hoping it’s a good bl but oh well but when reading it from the pov of a psychology student, it sure is fascinating will say APD majorly doesn’t look like this realistically and also it’s not something people are born with, it can be passed on through genes but it really depends on a persons upbringing whether it’ll become a disorder or not however i do see wooyeon’s words in the second last chapter to be pretty true it’s really hard to evade what he termed as wilful negligence i’ve seen patients (im to call them clients since i’m still an intern) who have APD (or as it’s widely called ASPD) and it’s really hard for them to feel the emotion that comes to us normally i do not know why the author took up this plot line but i’d say both inseop and wooyeon have issues which fit like a puzzle which i believe is what the aim of the story is to show that two ‘imperfect’ beings can coexist but that certainly does not mean it’s right or ethical. what both of them need is professional help and then perhaps see each other, but let’s not normalise this type of ‘ooh my secret is my disorder he won’t say a word about this’ and Inseob being like ‘ooh he treats me like shit makes me feel like shit but oh well somehow i still love him’ it’s borderline stockholm syndrome, BPD, PTSD also take all of these with a grain of salt im still a student expressing my opinion
uh so i usually don’t comment but i’m seeing a lot of comments about abusive trope
i stumbled on this from the main page hoping it’s a good bl but oh well
but when reading it from the pov of a psychology student, it sure is fascinating
will say APD majorly doesn’t look like this realistically
and also it’s not something people are born with, it can be passed on through genes but it really depends on a persons upbringing whether it’ll become a disorder or not
however i do see wooyeon’s words in the second last chapter to be pretty true
it’s really hard to evade what he termed as wilful negligence
i’ve seen patients (im to call them clients since i’m still an intern) who have APD (or as it’s widely called ASPD) and it’s really hard for them to feel the emotion that comes to us normally
i do not know why the author took up this plot line but i’d say both inseop and wooyeon have issues which fit like a puzzle which i believe is what the aim of the story is to show that two ‘imperfect’ beings can coexist but that certainly does not mean it’s right or ethical. what both of them need is professional help and then perhaps see each other, but let’s not normalise this type of ‘ooh my secret is my disorder he won’t say a word about this’ and Inseob being like ‘ooh he treats me like shit makes me feel like shit but oh well somehow i still love him’ it’s borderline stockholm syndrome, BPD, PTSD
also take all of these with a grain of salt im still a student expressing my opinion