I'm with the guy this time. Sorry but accountability is accountability. The guy made efforts and it's the FL who can't handle it. She knows she's she was wrong for saying what she said, and it's the worst thing to not know what you fucking want. But all she needs to do is own it, she is not well and even if it was the guy who did her wrong and initiated it - she had been doing him wrong at this point and just break it off.
But it's too late now. He might break up with her and she might not accept that. With her baggage it's a struggle to think what's the right thing to do. And for the guy, honestly? He should have broken up with her a long time ago.
I'm with the guy this time. Sorry but accountability is accountability. The guy made efforts and it's the FL who can't handle it. She knows she's she was wrong for saying what she said, and it's the worst thing to not know what you fucking want. But all she needs to do is own it, she is not well and even if it was the guy who did her wrong and initiated it - she had been doing him wrong at this point and just break it off.
But it's too late now. He might break up with her and she might not accept that. With her baggage it's a struggle to think what's the right thing to do. And for the guy, honestly? He should have broken up with her a long time ago.