any recs where the seme is always worried for the uke? i love a seme that is like that and...

don't press the button
Rainbow city (SA in chap 3, best to skip also trust the process, it's slow burn but when it burns it burns hard and mc will be ml first priority)
save my love
breaking through the clouds 2: swallow the sea (also slow burn)

Try these
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/dear_00/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/in_the_deep_1/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/seashell_boy_pearl_cum_boy/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/rent_boy/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/ways_of_parting/

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/max_mojave_s_case/

Is the SA in Rainbow City involved one of the mc or both?

https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_art_of_taming_a_tiger/

the ml tries to SA the mc

Noooo :(

yeaaa...I love the author but I genuinely have no idea why she had to add the SA in there, the story is perfectly fine. ╥﹏╥ The thing is it's not brought up again (not in the manhwa that is, in the novel the mc brings it up once or twice) so I still highly recommend the manhwa for the story and the dynamic later on. (but if it still makes ppl uncomfy I get it ╥﹏╥)

Thank you for the warning. I never fully enjoy the BL story that’s started with SA, no matter good looking the characters are. The story seems really interesting, maybe some other time