Oh for sure be a virgin till your 30s and wait for a guy who never thought about that consideration for you
Lmao if you want someone who's a virgin then find one dont go complaining for something that you have the ability to choose. And when it comes to ML in Dash he's actually a virgin if thats such a problem for you. And actually genuine question whats the problem with being a virgin until your 30s? Is it that big of a deal if you've never had sex? Ppl make it to be such a big thing my god
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Ohmygosh, I think there should be a different flavor for everyone. No sure life is a one size fits all situation anyway. I definitely don’t like my FICTIONAL mangas to be steeped in personal preferences to suit all readers. If a reader doesn’t like an MC to sleep around there are plenty of virginal MC to pick from. If the ML is a manwhole I don’t see why the MC cannot be one too.
Also, this saving your virginity for that one special man is rooted in misogyny that fujoshis have brought into yaoi. As a woman getting my cherry popped wasn’t magical it hurt and the sex wast even worth it. I am sure many women have the same or similar experiences. Stop romanticizing being a virgin as something wonderful. It really fcks up the reality of the experience. I can see why girls/women cry their first time. If a man experience this his first time, I guarantee there there a lot more men being virgins. And sex after some experience will only get you to enjoy sex. You know what you like and what your proclivities are after you have been exposed to what makes you cum and not. It’s a fluke that you get your cherry popped and have you feel good about it to enjoy it.
I just want to precise something I've said on my comment. I don't like it both ways. I don't like it when a bottom is a whore AND I also dont like when a top is a whore too. Same when it comes to heterosexual relationship. I agree with you on the fact that there should be all types of manga for everyone. Thats why I would have dropped this if the manhwa wasnt so interesting. Also wanted to clarify something. I said I did not like when characters have ONE NIGHT STANDS. Didnt say I didnt like them dating other ppl. I dont like them opening up their body for anyone to take. If they are dating someone and they make love I'm good with that. But if they go out of their way to get every STIs possible then it aint it for me.
Also, I truly think being a virgin is a good thing. I dont see it as being mysogynist. To keep yourself protected until someone who will be with your for the rest of your life comes is something I believe is truly wonderful. Whether your first time will be painful or not, all of your other times will be with that special someone and together the both of you will learn what each one of you like. At the end of the day, this is not even about having pleasure on your first time this is just about having self-respect. This is what I believe anyway.
Yes,a sealed candy is better than an open
Would you buy a sealed candy or an open one
You see, the problem here is that women are human and aren't candy. I hope this clears things up for you :)
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You're completely free to not have one-night stands. Your values are 100% valid when it comes to you. Just try not to project that onto other people. People are different after all.
this is literally fiction, do you have brain issues or why are you so offended because some fictional character had sex?
Calling a whore to people who sleep around isn't it tbh. Even tho fictional characters or not. Honestly if it consensual, people can do whatever they want, and it is not for you to judge. Having self respect, can be for you to not having relationship, but that's your own criteria, and tbh you sound a hella lot judgemental towards other people's life. That tbh their choices don't matter to you. If you don't like turn around and get out of thier asses. I am sick of tired of people judging and insulting people for living their lives as they please.
Honestly understandable we all have our own preference. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
It's not too late to delete this comment bud
It's also not too late to STOP projecting your values onto others - even fictional characters
People can have sex and still have self respect
You're here today because your parents did it and they probably didn't "save themselves" for each other
The MC isn't a whore, he's just a regular person who has desires and needs like anyone else
Thats why I only talked about characters and not real life ppl though it might come as if I'm judging them, I'm not. After all, what ppl do in their every day life doesnt concern me but since reading manhwas is something that do impact me in a way, I wanted to share my way of thinking. I know many ppl would not agree with me and I dont really mind tbh we're in a society where everything is okay now so I guess I would be the bad guy when I dont agree with a majority of ppl
I'm happy and proud to say that my parents did "save" themselves for each other. It might not seem that way to you but some ppl do have values that they want to respect very much. Also, I dont want to say too much otherwise some ppl might feel as if they are being targeted by my words -which is not the case tbh. You can do whatever you want in your life who am I to stop you. I only expressed my way of thinking towards the MC. And lets be honest, a whore is someone who sleeps around with many ppl. How is MC different from that? Maybe the term was too harsh but it is the truth
Since this is fiction, it doesnt really matter if I give my opinion right? After all this is "literally fiction". Its not something that exists so it doesnt really change your life no? Also why are YOU getting so offended over someone's comment on fictional characters who doesnt adhear to your way of thinking?
Mc sleeping around isn't that important y'know. They're not even together with the ml so who gives a fuck?
I know I'll get a lot of hate for saying this and I dont give two fucks about the ppl coming here insulting me or whatever. I don't like the fact that the MC has one night stands. Never really liked characters who keep using their body to satisfy their desires instead of having a little bit of restrain. It really disgusts me to no point. Idk man, feels like they dont really respect themselves if anyone can use their body as they want. I also feel the same way with MLs or tops. Like plz sir keep your dick in your pants and go touch some grass. Ppl nowadays be okay with this shit and maybe its okay for you guys but it'll never be okay for me. Also I would like to add that despite it bothering me a lot I would never bother or insult someone about things like that in real life. I just wanted to rant a little bit to be honest I'll continue the manhwa and read the novel because it genuinely seems good but itll stay as an ick for me throughout the whole story.