Be open minded people lol, both are suffering end of argument??

It doesn't excuse what he did

So it’s okay to do what he did to her cause he was suffering and put her on this pedestal with his own delusions and got mad that she wasn’t what he expected ?? Okay ╮(￣▽￣)╭

There’s nothing to be open minded about. Heiner still drove an innocent person to attempted suicide twice. The same innocent person who was willing to understand all his struggles

Regardless of his suffering, rather than making another person continue to suffer, he should take responsibility and truly remove himself from Annette’s life as she wishes

Instead here he is pathetically busying himself in her affairs still no matter how much she tells him not to. I wish restraining orders existed. In their relationship, he’s the only abuser. She wasn’t involved in his past abusen