Hm??? They still didn't tell him that they made out and almost had sex tho??? They summari...

I get what you mean and why you’re upset, its totally true that he could’ve just been more clear about what happened.

Though the statement: “went to a hotel” is vague as to what happened, most can guess the intent and possible actions leading up to it. So it’s likely that Doha already knows that their friendship started with an attempt to have sex- but ended up not going anywhere, and he just doesn’t care enough about it.

Hmmm I think it's fine. Point is they didnt have anything special before or even now.

That's for Doha to decide whether it's fine or not. Point was to be honest and open about everything.

I am basing it from Doha. He accepted it. And I get why. There would be a problem if Bom would be too comfortable with someone he really have spent time with sexually - as there could be some romantic feelings left.

I would've like to see when Doha accepts it too, IF they actually told him. But they still didn't, so how would you see him accept something he hasn't been told about? Only us the viewer's perspective knows about it.

They went to a hotel, drunk. Bom thought he was Doha with the intention of sleeping together, because they went to a hotel. They are not kids. He gets it what was supposed to happen in a hotel and drunk.

haysss whatevs, I'm talking circles with you insisting that. Just be thankful this is only a fictional bl manhwa, because a mindset of communication like that in real life relationships is a major red flag.

Deciding only for yourself what's fine and what isn't, not considering what your partner really feels. Low-key gaslighting them that it's just their misunderstanding. Aight, bye goodluck.

Jeez. If the kiss had some value to it, they'd probably be open about it. It was basically nothing so they didn't specify.


And for Doha, if he's really bothered by it, he'd be asking follow up questions like how far they have gone before stopping. I'm not saying communication is not important but triggers and sensitivities differ from one person to another. Doha's acceptance and concern is obvious and it was answered. Bom and the friend doesn't have anything to feel guilty for. Like girl they are grown ups. They understand they are not virgins. Doha just wanted to be sure there're no lingering feelings. You can't expect your sensitivities, standards and morals to be the same as every one.

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Sorry but you make it seem like the characters esp Doha an idiot. He is not. ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

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I like how people are arguing against you cause they’re assuming Doha is feeling a certain way when he wasn’t even fully informed.

Ummm I agree with you on the "making Doha jealous by saying they have an intimate relationship" thing
And you're completely right about honesty
But I don't think that's what the author meant in that chapter
Lemme clear the misunderstanding

See, I assume you've never gone for a hookup after clubbing (which is totally cool)
But in those situations, the kissing usually starts in the back alley of the hotel and continues in the elevator and then on the bed
So the "...went to a hotel" thing already covers the kissing part, really. I don't think it's that serious

I'm not saying that's good behaviour ╥﹏╥
But dumb shit happens when you're young

And that Doha MUST be told about it because it's assuming Doha does not have any idea how hookups happen and he's naive about it.

Yeah, confidently assuming that someone else is fine about something on their behalf is kinda crazy.

Like, similarly on YouTube I saw a parent prank their kid in a way that made the kid cry sadly. Everyone pointed out how awful that prank was for the kid, but the parent's only response was "oh she's over it, because I know my kid better than anyone else, I bet she doesn't even remember it".

But like, that's just the parent's assumption saying that the kid was fine, and not the kid themself actually saying that they're fine.

So some people really just have the audacity to assume they know someone else's feelings or thoughts more than the person themself.

For me, it's not about the level of knowledge you need about hookup culture to understand "went to a hotel" means they ate each other's faces on the way there, the problem is the phrasing which still attempts to be vague.

Particularly Bom, who's still attempting to be vague and still trying to hide it in some way. Like, tell me. In the end, WHO was it that brought up the part that they went to a hotel? Not Bom, right?

So, Bom wasn't even the one who told him they went to a hotel. He essentially did zero of the explaining. But did allow someone else outside their relationship to tell Doha implications of them being intimate and all. That's him being vague and secretive.

Compared to how Doha explained everything that happened with him and Dohyuk. Yes, Bom found out from Dohyuk first, but Doha actually planned to tell him that day anyway, even if Bom hadn't found out.

Doha was being 100% with him from then on even though he hid so much, but Bom is still being only about 60% honest (he didn't even spill, if anything).

I think it's just unfair bcs Doha talked about one of the hardest things to talk about, which is getting SA'd. But all he gets in return is some vague sh*t.