I gues I understand him a litter considers I read a little farther into the story and found out he was molested by gay guys, but I still don’t like him and how he thinks is wacky. I hate the blond dude to with all his fucking “you guys aren’t any different” “can you think of them not as women” or whatever shit he said cause I could easily refute that shit he pisses me off kys
this!! im at that part right now and the no eyebrow long blonde hair dude also pissed me off. why on earth is his point of view acceptable? i get having a discussion but he just straight up said i hate gay people, and attacked touma for being gay. are you serious?? she was absolutely right, you hate things you dont understand. you call him your best bro but the minute hes different hes disgusting? what the fuck is up with that? thats just straight homophobia, why should his views be seen as okay even though they cause direct hate? being molested doesnt mean to hate everyone whos the same way. even if your a girl and hate men that have done the same that doesnt mean your view is correct when not all men are like that. its that simple to understand. also the misogynistic argument as well GOD I HATEEE THESE TWOOO WHAT THE FUCK.
i completely agree with your anger against him but i feel like it was more then him hating his best friend, he admits to being molested which is a completely understandable reason in which he acted, not right, but understandable. sexual assault is something traumatic and why he attacked toma isnt out of hatred but fear, a trauma response. i think what he hates so much and fears is something that relates to someone he thinks of so fondly distresses him so much and we can see that when he acts so hyper masculine with yagihara, i dont think what he did was right but i do think its important to recognize how they think because thats what this manga is all about; perspectives
i also want to add that the argument “ you hate what you dont understand” can be applied to the girls, they do not understand his trauma against sexual abuse and sexual assault and it downplays his own experiences. the situation was never an argument about who was right or who was wrong because it was entirely
morally grey
He was still in the wrong, he had reasons though, but still wrong for what he did. Obviously I don’t understand but if I’ve had a traumatic relationship that harmed me without my convent, I don’t think I’d freak out and hit a friend if she tried to hit on me or do one singular thing that I don’t agree to. Yes he’s justified but that was honestly over the top. The other blond guy to saying that shit, he was in the wrong. He started saying stuff like not understanding and something like, “are you trying to make enemies”, but he can’t say that shit cause he obviously wasn’t putting himself in the girls shoes either and upsetting them, in fact, every single thing he said was wrong and dumb
to validate your argument through what you “wouldve” done despite clearly admiting you dont understand sexual assault and the traumatic effects contradicts literally everything. i never once said what he did was in the right nor that his actions were justfied; violence is something never to bestow on someone especially one undeserving but the whole point of that scene was that they all had DIFFERENT perspectives on the situation that they couldnt understand, the girls were friends of touma and didnt witness what had actually happened, and the guy saying are you trying to make enemies makes a clear point because the bald guy is forced to listen to them but they dont?? his responses goes both ways. again its clear that why the guy bursted into violence was because it was a TRAUMATIC RESPONSE, and you saying “ oh i mean i wouldnt have done that” doesnt lessen the meaning of that experience, sexual abuse ESPECIALLY when your a minor and your reaction to that is anything but over the top, its a traumatic response
I FUCKING HATE THAT SHAVED HEADED BITCH. HIS WAY OF THINKING PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH AND NOTHING WILL MAKE ME LIKE HIM GO DIEEEEEE