i feel like there's something missing?

kiffy November 13, 2024 5:05 pm

i feel like Seul didn't suffer enough to deserve Jun's forgiveness. Also, i hate how they never talked about Jun's depression and withdrawal from his baking interests after being rejected in highschool because that thing is really serious. Jun said he has moved on from it but it's important for them to talk about it so Seul could understand how his words affect other people. But i guess he still didn't learn his lesson because he's kinda an asshole to some people in the story (Dongha). Speaking of Dongha, i wish his arc could've been written better and the author shoulda made it into something mature like "Seul helps Jun reject Dongha by having a healthy and meaningful conversation during lunch/dinner" which can show that rejecting someone can be done in a nice way (bc yk we have seen that Jun has been rejected twice, both in a really bad way) and this can serve as a character growth for Seul too given that one of his main flaws, besides being sexually confused, is his lack of respect to people bc he's easily swayed by his emotions. Seul being an asshole to Dongha kinda put him in a bad light for me. I understand that he's just protecting his relationship but come on now. There is a nicer way to do that. (tho ik Dongha is in the wrong too).

still rated this 4/5 stars because i can see Seul's desire to be better for Jun like he wants to be understanding and outgoing so that Jun wouldn't feel uncomfortable with him and not be a trouble for Jun. he's not really a perfect seme, he's kind of a yellow flag because he might be affectionate and caring but their sex feels so one sided and he doesn't really respect Jun's wishes during sex which is selfish because sex is not only about pleasuring yourself, it's also about understanding your limits and your partner's limits and being concerned if they're hurt or uncomfortable about something (a manhwa did a better take on this: Chapter 15 of "You and I can't do this")
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/you_and_i_can_t_do_this/uu/br_chapter-120210/pg-1/

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