Come on yall

Everyone is calling the uke dumb and weak Come on y’all we literally seen seme Say that the abuse from his family was so much that his mom had to just leave behind her kids to be able to get away Let’s not forget all that the seme has done He literally emotionally manipulated him all throughout their college relationship Then when he found him and found out, he had a kid, he decided that they’re going to abide by his rules and threatened the uke With his friend and his friends restaurant saying that he would destroy them He isolates him forces him to quit his job, only allows him to interact with people he deems Forces him into a sexual relationship by using pheromones Uses his child and his child’s medical needs as a pawn and leverage Literally breaks down how he could never escape from him or if he tried he’d get custody , then forces him to Pretend to be in loving relationship Like this is literally classic abuse, and abusing methods We have a manipulation Sexual and emotional exploitation financial abuse Using loved ones for control and Anchorage loving bombing and affection based abuse of course the uke Mental state is going to deteriorate he’s going to be anxious. He’s going to be paranoid. He’s going to be in a constant state of survival his brain chemistry rewiring, and he’s trying to protect his child Trying to provide for his child he’s being abused

He isnt a victim, he is the only abuser to his own mind and to people around him.

Explain please because this makes absolutely zero sense

The term "abuse" means the knowing infliction of physical or psychological harm or the knowing deprivation of goods or services that are necessary to meet essential needs or to avoid physical or psychological harm. Abuse is when someone causes us harm or distress. It can take many forms, ranging from causing someone physical or mental pain. It can occur in many places and forms. Often the people who commit abuse are taking advantage of a special relationship. "abusive behaviour" means behaviour that consists of or involves-- (a) violence or threats against, or intimidation of, a person, or. (b) coercion or control of the person against whom the behaviour is directed.
What are the ten different types of abuse?
Physical abuse.
Domestic violence or abuse.
Sexual abuse.
Psychological or emotional abuse.
Financial or material abuse.
Modern slavery.
Discriminatory abuse.
Organisational or institutional abuse

Tactics can include but aren’t limited to
Loving bombing
Cold shouldering/ withholding of affection
Gaslighting
Financial dominance
Isolation
Power imbalance
Negging/ verbal attack
Emotional manipulation
Sexual exploitation/abuse
Conditioning through consequences and rewards
Status leverage
Use of child or loved ones or pets
Use of secrets
Mental or medical condition
Spiritual exertion
Gender or sexual Identity
Technological control
Racial or cultural
Discrimination
Documentation control
Litigation
Threats, Coercion, Intimidation
Stalking
Physical Violence

Tldr, good for you for copying and paste your research. Good thing to see people use the internet the right way but you need to learn more and reflect on life that no one has control over your life if you dont allow them to. Everything in our life is a result of our decision one way or another and let's take credit on that and not blame others as we have no control over them. If we want life to be better, we start within.

I just want to add on cuz it seems that your research didnt tell you that abuse can also be inflicted upon oneself. Huh guess google doesnt help that much.

That’s crazy bc you are literally denying a victim and blaming a victim bc it doesn’t fit your standards when becoming a victim is the manipulation and lost of one’s self the abuser literally controls the victims life so they can continue their abuse and FORCE their agenda you don’t choose to be a victim it just happens no one wants to be a victim and he certainly didn’t choose either he ran away and was found and dragged back against his will he only came back bc the seme threatened his friend and the restaurants forced him to quit told him he’ll take legal action and gain custody if he didn’t come used their son having a rare medical condition as leverage to control him a use his love and need to protect his child against him he’s been oppressed financially emotionally and sexually he’s been isolated he has no one and no money how is he supposed to better himself if his child’s life is dependent on his abuser and yes I copied and pasted bc obviously you are incapable of seeing the classic signs of abuse your insensitive behavior is disrespectful to victims if you can’t see how this is by the book abuse maybe if I laid it out for you it would get through but no here you are double down on be a victim blaming and shaming person

Crazy how you don’t have the reading comprehension when I said abuse tactics include but are limited to and in the definition it literally never said that abuse is inflicted just on to someone else it word for word says "abuse" means the knowing infliction of physical or psychological harm or the knowing deprivation of goods or services that are necessary to meet essential needs or to avoid physical or psychological harm this doesn’t imply that one can’t abuse one’s self I guess common sense doesn’t apply here and your reading comprehension doesn’t help much either, does it

Tldr cuz i only wanted to add on that it can also be inflicted upon oneself. Crazy how you thought i said "abuse is inflicted just on to someone else". Guess your eagerness to put my words into your own mouth couldn't help you to see through things rationally isn't it so? Lmao so much for nothing

Lmao, you use to much words and reach nowhere.

Again, i didnt read because i think it wouldn't matter. This is a good record for then you grow up and learn about life. You can look back to your comment and see how much you are lacking and unstablr during this time. Hope you well in life and may whatever pain you have right now be gone kiddo.