naw cuz truly…

I hope you consult someone you trust in your family. I really hope you get to a safe place wherever you are. Don’t ever think you deserve this or ask for it. I hope you get away from it

Really sorry to hear you have to experience this, please stay away from those freaks and get help if possible. Not sure if there are trusty people around you but confiding to someone who listens and supports/helps you might help a lot. And you are definitely not asking for it or at fault, victim blaming is just as bad as committing the crime imo. Sending you love and wishes to have a better life without these so called family members.

I wish i could hug you. I also am a victim of molestation. This is the first time that i shared this after so many years of silence because nobody believes me even if I tell them.

The world is very unfair to be honest.

i believe you.

Hi, i don't know what to say but thank you. This is the first time that i open this up because i put those memories behind the shelf for a very long time.

Whenever i think about it, i just dismissed it from my mind because i'm ashamed of it. People would just label me as a whore for allowing it and not fighting back when infact, i did say it to my parents, they didn't believe me at all.

My cousin has also experience the same thing with our uncle. But just like me, she choosed to remain silent because of the same reason as mine.

They value the family's honor than us, so we can't trust other family members to listen and believe our narrative on what happened before.

Thank you for believing. Not all people would accept someone's confession like that. Many people would doubt because they think it was our fault or we're just making up stories to ruined someone else's life.

I can relate from Nagisa because after my uncle, my neighbor/playmate did the same thing to me. I was young back then.

i feel u. i decided to say some cryptic shit out loud in reference abt my dad because he was bothering me. but i honestly just regret it now. because im scared. i don’t want to rock the boat. i just wish i had enough money to go live someplace else. i don’t want to be near anyone atp.

my brother was the first person who molested me. i confided abt what he did to a therapist i was seeing and therapist unfortunately called the cops n i had these men asking a then 14 year old me all these invasive questions abt where he touched me and to describe how. i ended up being like “no no therapist just blew what i said out of proportion” to get them to go away. i hate mandated reporting. i don’t hate my brother because he was young when he did that to me and he’s actually a nice person. idk why he did that but i don’t believe he’ll ever do soemthing like that again.

i’m sorry ur family has chosen to take your uncles side. u and ur cousin do not deserve to have to be sidelined like that. it definitely helps to tell someone abt what’s happened. even if it’s her, an internet stranger, a friend, etc. i thought i would take what my brother did to the grave and the last thing i wanted was for my mom to know. when i was forced to tell her before the cops came, i think she cried harder than i did. because she had been assaulted as a girl too. :(

It’s sad how something non-existent like honour is more valuable than your own child. I wish the people atleast realise later and live in regret for what they have done. I believe what you say, No child would ever make smt up like this unless they sick. I hope you get to a better place later, get whatever you wish to have and be successful in life.

Omg noooo! I don’t need to make excuse for a molestor even if they r your brother or anyone close . Just know this, people who does something like that definitely knows what they are doing is wrong in their heart!!! You aren’t responsible for others feelings! You have to look after yourself! No one will take care of you better than yourself, your close ones are responsible for you, but to protect you is always a choice for them as you can see how many predators there are just as close to us.
And dude you don’t have to be the person to pretend everything is alright just to put together something that’s already broken. Place yourself first and get away from that place, if possible take your mum away too!

And I have to tell this your username is sending me help!!!!!

This really saddens me and I can feel your hurt (both @HannieRie and @Cumsock). The victim is never at fault, even if they don't fight back it doesn't mean they allow it. People will respond differently to assault, there is fighting, screaming, flight but some also might freeze or get into paralysis (tonic immobility) due to shock and intense fear. And I agree, family members should know better that this behaviour is ok, normal or acceptable. I wish you all to get to a safe place soon. If the environment you are in right now is toxic and dangerous then it is better to avoid the molesters as much as possible while buying your time to get away as soon as possible.

The funny thing is we just act like nothing happened. My uncle molested me when i was 7 or 8, i was in 2nd grade. My cousin did the same in my 3rd grade along with our neighbor.

Like what Nagisa said on this manga, he feel that he was only subject to do that nasty stuff like that and he can't control himself.

I also become like that too. I grew up without my parents knowing what really happened to me.

Things get uglier as i'm also abuse verbally by others. I did not ask for these things to happened.

I cut that person off from my life. The step brother's of my late mother are sick and disturbing.

My cousin is already married and she has 2 female kids now. Whenever there's an occasion that we see each other, we tried to avoid that person whenever we go to sleep.

He molested us when we're asleep and touch every part of our body. The most extreme was trying to get my virginity but they didn't.

He took every privilege that i could give like having my first kiss.

I can't trust guys since the only thing that they only want was to get under my pants. I was afraid of being touched by someone because of that.

I only opened this up in here since i know no one would blame and judge me.