And ppl should remember that Sejin doesn't love his father, he submits to him. Abuse is about power. He's fucking SCARED of his father, that fear is what pulls abused ppl back. He wants his approval and he fears his disapproval.
I get it now
You explained this so well. Too well even. Thank you!
You're welcome. I see abused characters getting called dumb and useless all the time on this website I just hope my words can help some people understand better
If anyone thinks Sejin is weak or annoying for this, they should take a step back. A lifetime of abuse can't be erased by a 2 month engagement. He's still gonna act like the traumatized person his father raised him to be. He's weak because trauma makes you WEAK not strong.
And Ido gave him no warning so he's allowed to be scared and want space from Ido, this isn't just about sympathising with his father. It's about feeling like Ido pulled the rug out from under his feet, he told him nothing about why Seonho is involved or what he really wants, he made Sejin feel like a pawn even if he did it for his own good, Sejin doesn't know that yet.