It seems like I failed to explain further why I said uke is dumb. Unnecessary drama because he should've been thankful to seme rather than feeling bad that seme took the company of uke's dad and had him arrested. Considering of all the hardships he went through under that so-called "father", he still feel sad and caring towards him. Was it not enough that his other family members were not arrested and only his sonnuva dad only jailed??
I don't think calling traumatized ppl dumb for acting traumatised is a good take. do you know emotionally scarred ppl like sejin are? deep down they do not believe in love bc they are broken, they just submit to power bc that's all they know. it takes a lot to come out of that mindset and believe in love.
I understand what you guys are pointing out but uke is old enough to stand and widen his point of view. Because if we always use the excuse of trauma especially in adulthood, I don't think we'll be able to move forward. It will only makes us more miserable.
Also, for me, I would understand if uke is a teenager or a kid because it would really be messed up to put pressure or expect someone to widen their Understanding and how to deal things considering they're too young. Uke is old.
It's ok if he felt sad about his dad getting arrested but getting mad at seme? Like come on, that's too much.
He's mad not because he put his dad to jail but because he thought seme used him all this time to take over Haeshin
It was probably weird to him that seme was so devoted and gave him unconditional love, even seemed to have everything planned, despite them only knowing each other for 2 months. He thought seme was using him from the start for this. He doesn't know about..
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Seme regressing yet so the fact that Ido loves him like that is suspicious to him
Thanks for enlightening me with this.
Also, I never said people who experienced trauma or has trauma are dumb. That's just too foul for me. I am just mad at uke for not taking a pity on that dad and getting mad at seme because it's a similar situation I had in which I regretted not making the right choice.
If y'all are offended in my saying uke is dumb, I'm sorry but this is purely my opinion.
Dumb uke.. it feels like an unnecessary drama considering what he went through all of those years under that bastard of a father.