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im not sure you understand how 3 years can take a toll on anyone. if you did, you would understand the impatience, the anxiety, and doubts that could eat away at a person. yeah, deguchi is hurrying bec if u cared to notice, he was the one always taking the first step and even with love, that gets tiring. seme was acting so indecisive and that honestly would've killed me ngl so maybe u could give deguchi some of the grace you seem to be giving onoda
I don’t get how most comments are against onoda and siding with deguchi like
Deguchi had no problem having an unrequited crush for 3 years and would’ve kept going if he still thought onoda is straight but suddenly now that theres actually a chance he’s suddenly impatient has no time and it “hurts too much”?? Bro istg if you don’t sit down
Also pointing out onoda rejecting him at first when he clearly thought deguchi was suggesting being with him as a joke LIKE DID YALL EXPECT HIM TO JUMP AND SAY YES LETS GO?/ he didn’t even confess he was just like Oh if You liKE ShiMA ThEn WHy DoNt You LikE Me hAhA ?/???
And considering he thought he was straight till now and only barely just had a small crush on shima, it’s not insane to ask for some time to think about having actual feelings for a man and with possibility of acting on it instead of brushing it off like he could brush off his crush on Shima and what that means about his sexuality and what he knows about himself, LET ALONE suddenly seeing a friend of 3 years romantically and sexually, asking for time to think isn’t insane yet deguchi keeps rushing him with threat of moving on and cutting off the friendship soon like how’s that fair? If you weren’t gonna give him time to make a choice you should’ve kept it to yourself and not confessed, you KNOW he’s been straight till now and it wouldn’t be a sudden “oh wait you love me? Then I love you too” immediate thing so rushing him is cruel, and then constantly putting words in his mouth and running away and acting like onoda is rejecting him when he isn’t, it’s looking a lot as if he only confessed to get a rejection and move on with how much he’s pushing onoda to reject him and not as if he confessed with hope to get together,
all the while onoda’s actually putting a lot of thought into it and not treating it lightly
And then KNOWING THAT you go and tell him “oh don’t think about me, my sexual needs are being taken care of”?????????? Are you stupid????? Like okay sure you didn’t have to be celibate for a man youu thought you had no chance with but still seeing people after confessing??? Onoda is there thinking of his feelings and future with you and you’re getting your sexual needs met with others??? And after all that you’re still jealous of the temporary shallow crush on Shima to the point of testing him knowing he’d say he’s alone EVEN THO HES ON THE PHONE ASKING TOU IF HE CAN GO TO YOUR PLACE EARLY AND WAIT FOR YOU TO COME HOME??> bro do you have a gene of focusing on all the wrong things out of what he says ??
He’s making me wanna pull my hair out