idk, as someone with traumatic past (sami definitely has one), i don't want to do anything with people from the past, especially if they know things. i'd rather meet someone new who doesn't know anything... let them know organically THROUGH ME. my perspective. my lense. my true experience.
the people involved in the past had their own versions of the things that caused me trauma, so they can never be purely empathetic to my struggles.
... or at least that's just me. /shrugs/
As someone who has also dealt with some things in the past, I absolutely cherish all the people there were there with me when I was going through it. Depending on how the story progresses my opinion on him may change, but as of right now it seems like he likes her for more than just her previous looks, so I'm hoping that maybe he at least tried to be there for her when she had experienced loss. However if we find out he didn't do anything I probably won't like him as much.
why am I kind of rooting for him like bro been there since the beginning he the og