first off u should calm down.
the chances of u being r*pe is not 100% or carrying a baby for that matter.
But the fact that there's a chance scares the shit out of me. I don't want to become a statistic? Do you?
no comment ^_^;
The fact being a girl does higher ur chances but wager on risk factors , like your environment , if u are ever alone when walking home.
My point is it's not 100% which means it's not guarantee , and i am sure even when trump was not in power people were still being r*ped , ur just more aware of it now.
Are you a trump supporter or something? Because I'm getting your point, but it's a dumb one.
Yes it's not 100% likely that'll it'll happen, but that fact it's even a risk factor I have to worry about is crazy enough. And yes people have been getting raped before, but not forced to keep the goddamn baby by the government because they have control over females bodies?
no i don't support him .
nor was i aware he was forcing girls not to get abortion , ( tho i am not surprised he would do that )
what i don't understand is why worry about an issue that has not even occur .
but if ur that worried then u should find ways to protect yourself , to at least live a decent life .
instead of looking for ways to die .
First of all, it's my life. I'll die if I want to. And it was clear that I wasn't actually being serious. Sarcasm.
And I'm going to worry because it can happen to anyone, any time and that doesn't exclude me. My life is decent enough and that could literally all go out of the window because of a man.
And the fact that you're telling me to protect myself (which I already do just fine but I still have the rights to be worried) instead of maybe thinking that I shouldn't HAVE to worry about protecting myself from disgusting human beings?
if u wish for a world were u do not have to protect urself from "guys" "girls"
then this is not it.
and my bad for taking u srs. and ur right it's ur life do as u please .
have a good day.
I understand how you feel. I hardly ever go anywhere at all and never purposely make myself look good unless it's in my own home (for fun) or if I'm seeing family... and 2 years ago I still got roofied by a neighbor I trusted. I saw my doctor, but going to the cops? It's never gotten justice. I partially have an iud because I want to feel safer from at least pregnancy if something like that happened again...
With politics constantly going to the right, feeling safe as a woman is getting progressively scarier. When even presidents getting elected treat people so badly, of course it continues to become more normal to be sexist, racist, ableist trash. I'd say one day we could have an alpha podcaster as president, but honestly at least they're smarter and wouldn't destroy *all* rights? Idk. The future doesn't look good.
Anyway- I know it sounds extreme, but there are sites that will still ship meds for causing abortion. In the situation of nonconsentual pregnancy, you would know about it before the pills would no longer be effective on their own. I know it's insane that we're stuck in a place that is slowly *removing* rights, but we have to stick together to help how we can (such as organizations that will still mail the pills at least) and keep being active with campaigning and voting in all elections, including local. We can't give up.
Not American but my heart hurts for the women of america. I was feeling really depressed and I found someone saying this :-
said this in another thread today but I think it’s worth repeating.
I read this somewhere and it gives me some solace. I don’t even remember where.
“In the time of dragons, raise dragon slayers”. In other words, yes it’s a difficult time, but we have to rise to the occasion, we don’t have a choice.
I had my moment of sorrow, and on vacation no less, but I’m going to be resolute. This too shall pass and it’s our job to keep our resilience. Take breaks when you need it.
I also remember learning something in college that really resonated with me. It was about how everybody assumes that progress will eventually come, but that’s not true, it’s hard fought, there are set backs, sometimes it even goes “backward” but every generation has had of group of fighters for progress. You can decide to be one of them. I know I will. I’m here, and millions of other women too. I’m scared, but not defeated.
Okay so at this point I'm going to need y'all to drop quick ways to die, it can be painful. Because I really can't do this anymore. Trump just fucking won.
What the fuck. I've always loved my life, being a girl. But I can't stand it anymore. This just isn't fair. Why do my rights, hell, my life have to be on the line just because I have tits and to flaps of meat between my legs?
Now I'm scared to go outside, for all I know a disgusting creature could violate me in all types of fucking ways, and I'll be expected to carry the fucking baby and give birth to it? Hell, now my mom has to pay more taxes? She's going through enough.
I can't believe people are so fucking idiotic and really think trump is going to do anything good for us. He's just going to up the suicide rates, like it wasn't already high enough. Will I even be able to go to college? Have a life? Anything I've planned?