I just started reading it and I need to say how fucked up is leaving a hickey on someone S...

DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 3:46 pm

I just started reading it and I need to say how fucked up is leaving a hickey on someone SLEEPING. that's literally sexual assault, I can't believe someone wrote this. I don't need to say it's absolutely ridiculous and nobody have fck right to do that to ANYONE, yeah????!!!!??

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    lulaluna November 5, 2024 4:54 pm

    What are you doing in mangago girl l’m not disagreeing with your statement, but this is probably the most non fucked up thing an average story here has done

    lulaluna November 5, 2024 4:55 pm
    What are you doing in mangago girl l’m not disagreeing with your statement, but this is probably the most non fucked up thing an average story here has done lulaluna

    Sis* bro* a fellow peer*

    DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 5:53 pm
    What are you doing in mangago girl l’m not disagreeing with your statement, but this is probably the most non fucked up thing an average story here has done lulaluna

    Listen I'm not new here, ik how does it work but still I don't have to accept some things, right? And while everyone is simping for character like that there has to me one person speaking up abt consent. Yknow, for balance in comments lmao
    And I'm girl btw, but its nice U taken my unspoken gender in consideration XDD

    DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 5:58 pm
    What are you doing in mangago girl l’m not disagreeing with your statement, but this is probably the most non fucked up thing an average story here has done lulaluna

    OH ALSO, IT HAPPENED IN HIS HOME. LIKE, HE LIVES HERE. HIS MOM LIVES HERE. THEY SHARE THE SAME PLACE. THEYLL SEE EACH OTHER. This mf was just a guest, and when mc was sleeping his drunk ass off, HE WENT AND LEFT HIM A BIG ASS HICKEY IN VISIBLE PLACE??????!!! wtf?!

    dianxianini November 5, 2024 6:51 pm

    my sweetie pie this is story meant for adult readers you act like a little kid getting upset over noncon stuff in fiction obvsly you should have expected it whats with the cover and content pls do not read this if you are uncomfortable instead of complaining to ‘supposed adult readers of this manhwa’

    lexi491625 November 5, 2024 7:17 pm
    my sweetie pie this is story meant for adult readers you act like a little kid getting upset over noncon stuff in fiction obvsly you should have expected it whats with the cover and content pls do not read thi... dianxianini

    i dont think its childish to not like noncon in fiction. people are allowed to have their icks. i respect op for standing in their opinion, and i think yall are doing too much. no need to respond if you dont agree and no need for such a patronizing/condescending tone. yes there's definitely a lot worse on this website but not everyone has to like everything, and the comments are accessible for everyone for a reason. i do like the notion of balancing out the comments too lol sometimes its refreshing to hear a voice of reality regarding boundaries in these stories cuz some toxic stuff gets normalized really easily in fiction, esp in BLs. but thats just my opinion of course

    dilfs November 5, 2024 7:19 pm
    my sweetie pie this is story meant for adult readers you act like a little kid getting upset over noncon stuff in fiction obvsly you should have expected it whats with the cover and content pls do not read thi... dianxianini

    I mean, they definitely have to the right to complain about something which is actually in fact a huge problem in the BL community (saying this as a dead dove enjoyer who does not mind rape/assault/etc in fiction) and I do have to disagree with you on the “obviously you should have expected that” because … just no

    BL or for that matter, poly content doesn’t equal to rape or sexual assault. Let’s not normalize that for us!!

    And to OP: I totally get your frustration but I’m guessing the way you worded that felt kind of offensive towards the creator of this? “Why would someone write this” is kinda over the top because everyone is free to create FICTION in a way they want, as long as you consume your media right! Everyone is also free to create rape fantasy etc. and it’s also fine to enjoy it: as long as it’s not normalized and stays fiction ofc.

    I do agree tho, it’s really hella weird and the way everyone just knows about it??;;;

    Ellie November 5, 2024 7:22 pm
    my sweetie pie this is story meant for adult readers you act like a little kid getting upset over noncon stuff in fiction obvsly you should have expected it whats with the cover and content pls do not read thi... dianxianini

    This comment genuinely made me cringe. People are allowed to voice their concerns on here just as much as their more positive feelings. This kind of content is a genuine ick for some people it’s not childish to dislike it, no matter how much it shows up in comics on here. Adult media does not equate to non-con. (Also there’s no way to tell it’s going to be non-con from the cover lol)

    DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 8:48 pm
    I mean, they definitely have to the right to complain about something which is actually in fact a huge problem in the BL community (saying this as a dead dove enjoyer who does not mind rape/assault/etc in ficti... dilfs

    Well, maybe not offending author - but their work. Patronizing sexual assault as a joke, or simply "flirting" (and that's what happened here), with character asking if he doesn't remember is wild and harmful to community. It's not normal and shouldn't be seen as.

    To all commenting here:
    U can like someone's work. I also like some toxic webtoons, relationships in them or whatever - the difference is, I don't romanticize It. I can like smth while also seeing faults and wrongdoings appearing there. And while others seem to not notice it, I did and wrote comment abt it.
    Sexual assault is not some funny joke, trope to laugh and blush for. It can be in fiction, it already is BUUUTTT should be seen as
    a WRONGDOING. As an ASSAULT. It's not cute, unfortunately it appears very often which is a big problem ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    Thanks to pookies here who can discuss it without absurd lines abt fiction and "it's not real" and calling me not-adult coz I spoke abt constans tropes of SA In bl being problematic and not cute

    DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 8:50 pm
    i dont think its childish to not like noncon in fiction. people are allowed to have their icks. i respect op for standing in their opinion, and i think yall are doing too much. no need to respond if you dont ag... lexi491625

    Ure the best pookie

    dianxianini November 5, 2024 11:00 pm
    I mean, they definitely have to the right to complain about something which is actually in fact a huge problem in the BL community (saying this as a dead dove enjoyer who does not mind rape/assault/etc in ficti... dilfs

    I agree with you. The thing with op though is, why would you complain by reading something that you are NOT COMFORTABLE WITH? THERES A REASON WHY THIS MANHWA IS FOR ‘ADULT ONLY’ THEYRE 30+. Yes, you can complain but who would care though, right? Thats the question. They cant project over fictional characters and we as adult readers know noncon is bad bad bad irl but yes this is fiction, theyre not real so op will just gonna stress out in unnecessary manner. Thats why, if it is not their cup of tea, best to drop the story to protect their sanity im just kinda tired of ppl policing fiction when it comes to noncon but violence and gore theyre ok with that like cmon

    DitoDitowski November 5, 2024 11:15 pm
    I agree with you. The thing with op though is, why would you complain by reading something that you are NOT COMFORTABLE WITH? THERES A REASON WHY THIS MANHWA IS FOR ‘ADULT ONLY’ THEYRE 30+. Yes, you can com... dianxianini

    That's a whole another topic, gore or violence. I, as a reader, can agree or disagree with some themes, and can state my opinion with work like this. Exactly like I did rn. The point of review is to show other readers if the work they're interested in is their cup of tea. That's why there is even comment section, for ppl to share their opinion. Some things shouldn't be normalized, romanticized ect, which is exactly my point. U bring nothing to discussion, just some weird names and basic conclusions abt "don't like don't read". I even stated I just started reading it, it didn't sit well with me.
    Idk if I'll be continuing reading, but for just being mean I think I should, so that I could every chapter write what I did like lol

    No idea if ure looking at likes, but there are a few users who agree with me. To it seems my point is very, indeed, valid.

    What's ur deal with "adult only"? No, srsl. How old are u? So what if characters are 30+, assault is still assault wtf????

    dianxianini November 5, 2024 11:31 pm
    That's a whole another topic, gore or violence. I, as a reader, can agree or disagree with some themes, and can state my opinion with work like this. Exactly like I did rn. The point of review is to show other ... DitoDitowski

    girlll once again, stop projecting over fictional characters. ‘Adult only’ is a ‘necessary label’ for media bc children who have the moral compass of a glass shouldnt be reading this. In official site esp if this has a novel YOU WONT BE ABLE TO ACCESS IT UNLESS YOU STATE YOUR AGE! Thus thats why im confused at your age at first bc Im assuming you were adult with a clear moral compass who knew noncon in real is bad and wrong but knows this is fiction it is not real theyre 2D characters. And it is not about normalizing (rp/noncon elements) bc we cannot tell that to the authors, cant we? And them writing something like this DO NOT REFLECT THEIR MORAL IRL. Best we can do is adhere to trigger warnings. If some themes are making you uncomfortable, best drop the story bc YES you can definitely complain, you have the right to do that but the thing is, I find it futile bc once again, some ppl who read this do mind noncon theme (we find it annoying and unnecessary too sometimes)

    tbh my only main point is, i know, we know it is bad irl but you cannot project over fictional stuff and act as a moral police bc you are consuming an adult story with triggering contents that might not be suitable for readers. Also, some ppl who act like moral police tend to judge ppl who enjoy dark themes like noncon which is ridiculous bc their moral compass will never be superior nevertheless bc theyre talking about…. Fictional characters anywy i rest my case. ‘Adult only’ is once again is a necessary label to media and you’ll know this if we read this in official flatform and not on mangago which do not put the necessary trigger warnings and ‘read at your own risk’ so it’s on us at the end of the day.

    AstraLily November 5, 2024 11:34 pm

    No because you're right, but I think that's why the MC is freaking out over it. I think more emphasis could have been put on just how messed up it is. But at least he's not acting like it's just another Tuesday (some stories I've read on here really treat SA like it's nothing...)

    egojn November 6, 2024 5:22 am

    Absolutely it's fucked and if it happened to me irl I may commit murder but on this site ur kinda preaching to the choir rn sorry

    DitoDitowski November 6, 2024 6:38 am
    Absolutely it's fucked and if it happened to me irl I may commit murder but on this site ur kinda preaching to the choir rn sorry egojn

    IKK but I'm glad someone's with me on this one, I didn't expect it to blow up, like