ppl aint gon show empathy when this girl out here seeling ppls information,basically being homophobic and giving lame ass excuses as to whyy she but in other peoples relationship. So what is she just became an adult she has got to have a little bit of sense. Being abanonded and meddiling in someones realtionship- then using it as excuse is so fucking weird and not valid at all. im really trying to be open minded here but please dotell me why the heck she did all of that. shes not a child anymore shes a young adult so she should know her actions are gonna have consequences.shes allowed to make mistake but mistakes like these?? messing with someonne else's life?? heck no.
I don't think she is really homophimobic herself, she's saying that if words go out they will be rejected by their community and she can't fathom the relationship being woth the risk. About the community, if we are talking realistically, she's sadly probably right, Korea isn't very accepting of homosexual relationship and even less so in such rural areas. That's in manwa and manga you rarely see characters in a gay relationship being very open about it but hiding it instead (except for some close friends or family members). She absolutely shouldn't have put Haebeom on those dating sites, and should have just talked to him about her worries though. She apologized for it, but her aggressive reaction is still immature and she's clearly projecting her own pain into their relationship. Basically, "how can you choose possible isolation and rejection, when I would do anything to avoid it but I am not truly able to"
As someone who’s a young adult from a relatively conservative Asian culture myself even I know that you shouldn’t over step boundaries and sign someone up for dating sites WITHOUT their consent or knowledge! Just thinking about it happening to myself or a loved one is super freaking creepy and I would drop that person out of my life asap. You can’t be mad at people for hating on her when she shows zero empathy towards the mcs who’ve been nothing but kind towards her
Oh, yeah she absolutely went over the line there! I'm not defending her actions or attitude here, I just wanted to point that her reaction probably has more to do with her projecting her feelings of rejection than homophobia.
the comments here make me sick… calling mi-ok names and the overall lack of empathy while the people you’re defending are extremely nice and compassionate. mi-ok basically explained how being different made her feel alone and didn’t want haebeom to go thru the same thing. don’t even get me started how messed up having emotionally unavailable parents must make you feel. while what she did was wrong (homophobic + selfish), you also have to understand that she probably just became an adult and was raised mostly by her grandma who has dementia, she’s practically still a child. she’s allowed to make mistakes, learn from them, and do better. i’m sure she’ll come around once she sees how ho and haebeom are always there for each other and how genuine their affection and feelings are