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It's precisely because uke is feeling betrayed, that is why he felt awkward and don't want his teacher to know.
Even his sense of betrayal is mentioned several times in the novel.
And his apperance changed drastically, I guess it's normal of him to think that his teacher won't recognize him (he also thought his teacher didnt remember his name since back then he always got uke's name wrong).
Like, even irl, most people never really recognize big size people when they lost a lot of weight.
If I we're in his shoes i would straight ask him that I know that he knows I was his student. Because, being all that friendly to someone you just met? Even treating them to a not cheap meal? Come on now