how is it complicating things when people just want to hold men accountable for their shit. Intentional or not, yamada himself knew and admitted he did wrong so why are you excusing it for “having a life outside a relationship” lol set your bar higher
set the bar higher?? GIRL , having a life outside a relationship is a reality that some people have a hard time adjusting especially in a rs when you and your s/o are inseperable; communicating feelings is the bare minimum. he did admit he was wrong that's why i said he told akane himself that he'd do better. hold him accountable?? for what?? akane herself told him she needs time to adjust to the situation. and i believe when she's ready they'll defo talk it out more and not just leave the problem as it is.
so idk what bar i should set??
Akane “adjusting” herself is her trying to be considerate of Yamada because she doesn’t want to be overbearing. That doesn’t mean that she is actually okay on the inside with her man staying up late and talking to another woman all night over call, regardless of how platonic it is.
Her trying to be considerate of Yamada in this case is sacrificing her own needs and boundaries in the relationship… which isn’t fair towards her. With all these different women coming left and right, how many lessons and problems with women are they going to have to confront with each other??? It’s tiring.
It’s understandable why readers are frustrated, they want Yamada to get a taste of his own medicine so he’ll actually understand how Akane feels instead of just saying “sorry” all the time without knowing how she actually feels
Having a life outside of the relationship doesn’t mean talking to your friend of the opposite sex over call for hours and late into the night!
idkw ppl are saying that they hate yamada bc he always makes akane jealous and say that akane also needs to find someone to make yamada jealous too, GIRL, i like some drama too but you don't just play fire with fire. its pretty clear that yamada has no romantic intensions with his gamer friend in the first place, they just need to communicate how they feel in their relationship. though it really does suck when your s/o spends more time talking with their friends than they do with you. but they also have a life outside a relationship, yk.
let the story pace for itself. don't make it more complicated than it alr is!!!