Writing this here cause just cause. But it has been bothering me so bad that the BL commun...

Lordy November 3, 2024 6:14 am

Writing this here cause just cause. But it has been bothering me so bad that the BL community chooses which rapists to favor over the other. I hate Jaekyoung, but I also hate Cesar, I hate Seung-ho, and every single other character that has raped their love interest, you can’t like Cesar but dislike jaekyoung. Like oh now they’re nice to the love interests so that erased all the times they raped and abused their lover

Responses
    Yjk x Kdj November 3, 2024 6:37 am

    I’m with u on this one. Even the ml from low tide in twilight, I ain’t forgetting or forgiving any of the ml who harmed their mc.

    Shiki November 3, 2024 8:10 am

    If you can't read this content, you reduce your yaoi/bl selection by more than half, I don't know what you will have left to read, so I think yaoi is not for you.

    Dee November 3, 2024 10:07 am
    If you can't read this content, you reduce your yaoi/bl selection by more than half, I don't know what you will have left to read, so I think yaoi is not for you. Shiki

    Theres a lot that don't involve this type. Surprisingly there are healthy bl too omg shocker :0

    Dee November 3, 2024 10:07 am
    If you can't read this content, you reduce your yaoi/bl selection by more than half, I don't know what you will have left to read, so I think yaoi is not for you. Shiki

    Theres a lot that don't involve this type. Surprisingly, there are healthy bl too omg shocker :0

    Mikaela November 3, 2024 2:57 pm
    Theres a lot that don't involve this type. Surprisingly there are healthy bl too omg shocker :0 Dee

    Sadly it's not most of the healthy Bls are boring without great angst or drama. While the most interesting Bls have unique storylines and fantastic art have toxic ml. As someone who love reading different genre I read quite a lot of stories from different countries and I can say that one Korean have the best tire of manhwas but they tend to have so much toxicity.

    Lilmushroom November 3, 2024 5:35 pm
    If you can't read this content, you reduce your yaoi/bl selection by more than half, I don't know what you will have left to read, so I think yaoi is not for you. Shiki

    I will just read the half that does not involve rape as love :)

    Weeno November 4, 2024 10:40 am
    I’m with u on this one. Even the ml from low tide in twilight, I ain’t forgetting or forgiving any of the ml who harmed their mc. Yjk x Kdj

    yesss. i was so confused why everyone loved him and made videos abt him being a green flag likeee r we choosing to forget cus its fiction or do we rlly think rape is forgivable? but ig for the reading experience many look past it...

    Yjk x Kdj November 4, 2024 12:48 pm
    yesss. i was so confused why everyone loved him and made videos abt him being a green flag likeee r we choosing to forget cus its fiction or do we rlly think rape is forgivable? but ig for the reading experienc... Weeno

    Girl ikr like it’s common knowledge our memories are cooked but they expect us to just forget it???? Like I don’t think they showed the mc dealing with it either right? He didn’t have any trauma from being raped or am I just cooked and can’t recall

    name November 5, 2024 6:43 am
    If you can't read this content, you reduce your yaoi/bl selection by more than half, I don't know what you will have left to read, so I think yaoi is not for you. Shiki

    "i can excuse rape so i get to read about more fictional gay rape" dang
    also bl means "boys love" and rapists aren't loving ppl so

    name November 5, 2024 6:48 am
    Sadly it's not most of the healthy Bls are boring without great angst or drama. While the most interesting Bls have unique storylines and fantastic art have toxic ml. As someone who love reading different genre... Mikaela

    you must've a weird relationship with consent if you feel this way. bc the two main chatacters don't have to fucking hate each other in order for a story to be interesnting.
    also notice how the abuse of the character taking the bottom (implicitly feminine) role is always the one getting abused? have you ever wondered why that is? perhaps because it's easier to not recognize a man as a rape victim?
    perhaps if those oh so interesting stories involved a woman as the victim, you wouldn't be so quick to defend them.
    rape shouldn't make a story more interesting. if you feel it does, you have a serious problem you should talk out with a therapist.