I mean Suo hasn’t done anything other than pressure him to do shit he’s uncomfortable with, i don’t even understand why Suo needs this information it’s not like the MC can unfuck those people . I just feel like Mc has been painted as someone who needs to apologize for shit he did wayyyy before they reunited and it doesn’t make sense.
They keep running into people talking about a huge part in his life that he REFUSES to talk about. I’d be pissed off and insecure too cause why do all these people know my partner better than me. Does he not trust me? Does he have any hidden intentions? If it didn’t matter now and he’s changed then why hide it? Suo doesn’t need to tolerate that type of anxiety even if Geon can’t unfuck those people, it’s not about that. It’s about having a healthy relationship where your partner doesn’t make you feel anxious or untrustworthy.
Those are totally valid but let’s be serious they haven’t even been together long it’s gonna take time but no one wants to feel like they’re being peer pressured into speaking about something. Did he need to know so bad that he was willing to say fuck my boyfriend’s public privacy and have the conversation out loud ? Every chance he gets to ask about it he does, even though in his inner monologue he says “ I’ll wait, I can’t give him time” he immediately jumps to asking again. My thing is if you date someone and break up with them solely off of what people tell you about them how can you possibly be a “ great partner “ . And yes Geon is not perfect but neither is Suo something’s take more time than others and he should be able to respect that.
Completely agree. Suo has his flaws too and he ridiculously unaware that it even comes off an inconsiderate. I also did not like the way he handled it in public. I just don’t think Suo wants an apology from Geon for being promiscuous in the past but more so, he just wants Geon to open up so that he can stop feeling anxious. And honestly, Suo has every right to leave a situation where he feels uncomfortable with just as much as Geon has every right to not disclose things he isn’s comfortable sharing yet. Right now, it’s clear that Geon is an anxious mess and he will lose Suo or anyone he could love in the future tbh if he doesn’t start to fezz up and at least be more open about his past. So I guess no one is the villain here.
like i get that the mc doesn't HAVE to tell him about his past and i was on his side but the fact he's giving suo NOTHING to work with is very frustrating. i hope we will see him chasing suo now