Any BL with kind MC??

I'm not talking about Mary Sue type of MC in BL. But the kind yet assertive one. How to explain, it's like, the MC treats people well, kids love him, and even those who dislike him, he doesn't let them get under his skin but also won't let them walk over him. An MC with genuinely good heart but won't hesitate to speak his mind if someone crosses the line, but say it in a nice way? I would love to read something with an mc like that. Bonus if the ML is a jealous type and fumes whenever MC gets "too kind" with someone but the MC chastises him for acting so childish or something like that lol