omg this!! at first I thought I'm just dumb lol :( bcs I can't understand at all the correlation between her reasons with haebom-sungho's relationship like dayyum WTF DID U MEANNNN GIRLLLL
I think in general she wanted our ML to have a normal life(like have a kid and then children)....she didn't want the ML to be outcasted or go through the sadness of being different and all.....where she is coming from her being different from her friends(because of her parents) and ML being different because of him being with a guy(she is from Korea after all....where people are more conservative especially countryside people....with prejudices against gay couple and all....besides her point was since it was a small countryside word would have spread and it won't be easy for ML and MC to hide their relation) are similar in a sense that both result you feeling that you are different, you are not normal.....
That's what I felt she wanted to convey....hope I made sense tho
I mean I understand the idea that when you are different or raised differently than others you can’t help but feel disconnected from others or at least outcasted form the people around you who seemingly live a more “normal” life than you leading you to compare your life and yourself to others more harmonious lives which leads to the idea that living or being different will have hardships, but I’m failing to connect that idea to gay ROMANTIC relationships when she’s more specifically talking about familial relationships :/