She doesn’t want him to suffer like she has. Quite the opposite. The whole reason she disapproves of their relationship is because she cares for them and doesn’t want them to feel neglected because of their relationship because she knows how much it hurts to be cast to the side. Now, granted, her actions are flawed and if she feels like people will be bad to them then she should support them all that much more. But she is young and traumatized and no one fucks you up like abusive/dismissive parents. And they live in a mega conservative country, to top it all off. So she is dumb, but give her grace because she isn’t trying to be malicious.
She doesn’t want him to suffer like she has. Quite the opposite. The whole reason she disapproves of their relationship is because she cares for them and doesn’t want them to feel neglected because of their relationship because she knows how much it hurts to be cast to the side. Now, granted, her actions are flawed and if she feels like people will be bad to them then she should support them all that much more. But she is young and traumatized and no one fucks you up like abusive/dismissive parents. And they live in a mega conservative country, to top it all off. So she is dumb, but give her grace because she isn’t trying to be malicious.