Her: "Hey so my parents don't love me and that's why i think you guys being gay is bad!" Excuse me??? How do those two things show any correlation? I applaud the apology, but honestly it doesn't even matter because you couldn't be honest with yourself or with them on why you did not like them together. Instead of taking accountability you came up with a bullshit excuse for them to excuse your blatant homophobia. It's clear all you are is homophobic and you attempted to cover it up to make you look better. And what's worse is you had the audacity to end the apology with "i still can't support you" Not once did anyone ask for your opinion on two grown men's relationship. Her whole defense was "oh well i was different because my parents don't love me and your different because you like a guy, and it hurt to be different so i'm self projecting my insecurities onto you!" oddly enough those two things are not even in the same category. She clearly has trauma and in order to protect herself she thinks the ones she "cares" about need to fit her standards of "normal" so they won't hurt like she did, which is narcissistic. She's not doing it because she wants the best for them, she's doing it protect herself from anything different because of her fear. And all i have to say to that is ... cowardly and selfish. I do hope she works through that on her own and eventually owns up to herself being homophobic rather than using her trauma as an excuse to make other's conform based on her own feelings.
Her: "Hey so my parents don't love me and that's why i think you guys being gay is bad!"
Excuse me??? How do those two things show any correlation? I applaud the apology, but honestly it doesn't even matter because you couldn't be honest with yourself or with them on why you did not like them together. Instead of taking accountability you came up with a bullshit excuse for them to excuse your blatant homophobia. It's clear all you are is homophobic and you attempted to cover it up to make you look better. And what's worse is you had the audacity to end the apology with "i still can't support you" Not once did anyone ask for your opinion on two grown men's relationship. Her whole defense was "oh well i was different because my parents don't love me and your different because you like a guy, and it hurt to be different so i'm self projecting my insecurities onto you!" oddly enough those two things are not even in the same category. She clearly has trauma and in order to protect herself she thinks the ones she "cares" about need to fit her standards of "normal" so they won't hurt like she did, which is narcissistic. She's not doing it because she wants the best for them, she's doing it protect herself from anything different because of her fear. And all i have to say to that is ... cowardly and selfish. I do hope she works through that on her own and eventually owns up to herself being homophobic rather than using her trauma as an excuse to make other's conform based on her own feelings.