You took the words outta my mouth, but yours were more elegant than mine.
Her pain was hers and hers alone. No one else's. I was bullied horribly as a child, on up until I graduated from high school, bc I was overweight. I was considered "different" at the private school I went to. But did you see me go to my gay friends and try to break them up from their partners and let them know I didn't support them? Hell no. First one all, I support them. Second of all, my pain had nothing to do with them.
I get what she's saying about it being a small town and one can say she's young and doesn't know any better, but she still would've gotten her ass chewed out by me. It's not her place and not her business. Her apology came with a "but" afterwards. I HATE those types of apologies. In my opinion, they are half apologies. And if you're gonna half-ass an apology to me, then I don't even want it.
I really hope her place in this story isn't very big. Her character and how she acted reeeeally turned me off
If it had been me she did this to, I wouldn't accept her half-ass apology, nor would I ever want anything to do with her. She's sneaky and I also agree with you: she's homophobic. It's borderline, teetering on the edge.
It comes off as ungrateful as well. Mr. Kwon takes care of the whole village and supports her and her sick grandma. And she goes and puts his personal info on a dating site. Like what make it make sense should've just minded her own business like he told her.
Oh no, I hope you are in a better place now. I can partly understand your pain, I had hard time too when I was in high school because of my weight.
And like you said, pain and hurt are something personal that can’t be totally understood by someone else. Something that may be insignificant for one can hurt deeply another one. So it shouldn’t be judged either. Feelings and pain are totally valid but where I draw the line is when they force themselves on other businesses. You should have talk to the person first and always being respectful without stepping on their boundaries.
In this case she was disrespectful in so many ways T^T she should have realized that.
I totally agree with you. By the look of it she is still not aware of what she did wrong so the apologies were not sincere. Like she said she know what she did is wrong but then add that they are better options for him like, girl that is none of your damn business. He already said he doesn’t care. So what if he is with another man, it’s his life.
Sigh
I guess her actions are filled with good intentions (i don’t think she means harm) but they are wrong. It’s icky and sneaky as you said.
I may have been hasty with my judgment. Maybe it’s not homophobia, or maybe it is. Like i said, she is young, she is still inexperienced, and at that age, i didn’t know how to deal with my emotion. He said he didn’t care about her opinion. She may have been hurt by that and she may have respond in the heat of the moment. Stupidity and anger make you say thing that you don’t mean truly. But it’s still wrong. Only time will say if she will change or not.
But yes, I hope she won’t be a bigger deal than she is right now. I don’t mind a little drama especially because the two of them seem to be really open to communication, but I don’t want it to be dragged through 20 chapters. They are « old » enough and know where they stand so i’m not worried about miscommunication.
Oh no, I hope you are in a better place now. I can partly understand your pain, I had hard time too when I was in high school because of my weight.
And like you said, pain and hurt are something personal that can’t be totally understood by someone else. Something that may be insignificant for one can hurt deeply another one. So it shouldn’t be judged either. Feelings and pain are totally valid but where I draw the line is when they force themselves on other businesses. You should have talk to the person first and always being respectful without stepping on their boundaries.
In this case she was disrespectful in so many ways T^T she should have realized that.
I totally agree with you. By the look of it she is still not aware of what she did wrong so the apologies were not sincere. Like she said she know what she did is wrong but then add that they are better options for him like, girl that is none of your damn business. He already said he doesn’t care. So what if he is with another man, it’s his life.
Sigh
I guess her actions are filled with good intentions (i don’t think she means harm) but they are wrong. It’s icky and sneaky as you said.
I may have been hasty with my judgment. Maybe it’s not homophobia, or maybe it is. Like i said, she is young, she is still inexperienced, and at that age, i didn’t know how to deal with my emotion. He said he didn’t care about her opinion. She may have been hurt by that and she may have respond in the heat of the moment. Stupidity and anger make you say thing that you don’t mean truly. But it’s still wrong. Only time will say if she will change or not.
But yes, I hope she won’t be a bigger deal than she is right now. I don’t mind a little drama especially because the two of them seem to be really open to communication, but I don’t want it to be dragged through 20 chapters. They are « old » enough and know where they stand so i’m not worried about miscommunication.
Am i dumb? (￣∇￣")
I don’t see in which being a neglected child and two guys having a relationship are the same. Like yes your pain is valid, but even so, you can’t project your own insecurities to others like that and do shit like this because you « care » . This is hardly the same situation. First thing first you should have talk to them before assuming they will feel the same thing as you.
I guess i can look past this. She is young, she doesn’t know better. She was projecting too much, she apologized and will fix her wrongdoings. She needs therapy for her trauma and low selfworth. She just need to understand that they are not her. They know where they stand both in their life, their feelings and relationship. BUT what i cannot understand is if it hurt being different, girl I don’t see how you cannot be supportive in this case? Especially because in your word « being different hurt and is lonely ». It’s just homophobia at this point.
So i am waiting for the next chapter. See where it is going to take us. Anyway, the doodle at the end never fail to make me smile.