Honestly I see where he's coming from. Showing your partner you love them by telling them, calling them sweet things, complimenting them, doing stuff for them, and so on so forth but having the other party telling you to stop calling him x, shutting up and "just keep thrusting", and pull away from kisses etc. must be rough. Sure garam tried to cook for him, but I don't think that's enough reassurance for a partner. It needs to be a two-way street. You can't have your partner do everything and not give anything back. At this point it seriously seems like he's just using him for sex. Oh, if only Garam knew how to use his words and explain himself... Like, tell him you're not ready. That you find it hard because x y and z. Don't let that man worry and feel unwanted, or don't be in a relationship you're not ready for.
Honestly I see where he's coming from. Showing your partner you love them by telling them, calling them sweet things, complimenting them, doing stuff for them, and so on so forth but having the other party telling you to stop calling him x, shutting up and "just keep thrusting", and pull away from kisses etc. must be rough. Sure garam tried to cook for him, but I don't think that's enough reassurance for a partner. It needs to be a two-way street. You can't have your partner do everything and not give anything back. At this point it seriously seems like he's just using him for sex. Oh, if only Garam knew how to use his words and explain himself... Like, tell him you're not ready. That you find it hard because x y and z. Don't let that man worry and feel unwanted, or don't be in a relationship you're not ready for.