Garam has some serious trauma around "straight" guys and while Jaehyuk has been trying as of late to be a boyfriend to Garam, he has said a lot of homophobic things to Garam in the past and also had used him as a "human dildo". It doesn't surprise me Garam hasn't truly accepted Jaehyuk's affections or let down all his walls. But I do think Garam should communicate a bit better with where he's at emotionally, even if he doesn't go fully into why right now, just a little something so Jaehyuk can understand some of his boundaries. Communication is key
Garam has some serious trauma around "straight" guys and while Jaehyuk has been trying as of late to be a boyfriend to Garam, he has said a lot of homophobic things to Garam in the past and also had used him as a "human dildo". It doesn't surprise me Garam hasn't truly accepted Jaehyuk's affections or let down all his walls. But I do think Garam should communicate a bit better with where he's at emotionally, even if he doesn't go fully into why right now, just a little something so Jaehyuk can understand some of his boundaries.
Communication is key