Congrats on discovering that when you don't choose to read a toxic story you don't read one.
Tbf sometimes shits escalate quickly esp with Korean manhwas.
Toxic stories are pretty easy to spot. If you don't like toxic BL and you don't read it, it'll be find. It's genuinely not that hard.
They literally have the same types of covers and archetypes. You can't miss them. So avoiding them is pretty easy if you at least try to.
I really like this story, there's smut and its pretty funny. The top isn't some trash that beats the bottom whenever. The top knows how to make the bottom happy and makes him laugh. And only gets serious when it concerns his wifey the plot needs a bit more. But I can tell this story is good