Do you think the WAY he's doing it is ok? Also, you're allowed boundaries, but they have to make sense. He's being controlling, not setting boundaries.
Also, he's being manipulative. Kyuho never said, "Don't talk to her because I'm jealous." He said, don't string her along anymore. Why? because seme is purposely stringing her along and Kyuho has already expressed his disgust with it. Now that he know the girl has not chance he asked him to stop hurting her.
His situation with a friend of many years is not the same as a random girl who clearly likes the seme. His friend NEVER showed signs of desire. Regardless, they're not together. He can call it quits, but he decided to verbally abuse him.
thank you!!!!
hhmm I see that makes sense Σ( ￣□￣||) , but what about kyuho? how do you think he handled the situation?
I actually think he handled it quite well, considering the many options he could have had when faced with someone blatantly disregarding him. he knew when to walk away because they weren't getting anywhere and to give time to cool off so they could speak reasonably, even if it wasn't respected. he stayed all night to prove his point about not wanting to sleep with his friend and at the same time showing he acknowledged ml words, even if they were nonsense. and he gave a clear perspective of how to go forward so he wasn't being a complete pushover and still sticking up for himself without just throwing out the "relationship". he very well could have taken the out that was offered but he stuck around and wanted to be reasonable about it even though they weren't communicating well. honestly, he probably knew what was going to happen before he even went up there to talk about it. if it were me, i wouldn't have gone at all. i woulda just been like "bye champ, believe what you want even if it's all delusional lies." but he chose to try to understand and to be understood. being attacked like that on top of everything and still sticking around after being given an ultimatum? he was 100% more mature about it. even the showing of the texts on his phone and saying exactly what was happening next, however obnoxious that could seem, was a respectful way of showing he was listening even though he didn't agree with what was being said.
You’re explained that so well… I totally agree with you
I cant believe im saying this but the seme is kinda right, like I get it,imagine if the seme had a friend that was a girl wouldnt the kyuho also feel jealous. Like I know there fwb but the seme has set boundaries and listen to kyuho for not talking to the girl, shouldn't kyuho also do the same?