I don’t blame Garam

omagadpoko October 26, 2024 7:59 pm

I see that most people are on Jaehyuk’s side and I agree that it is understandable to be upset from his perspective but I can sympathise with Garam as it would also be hard for me to be affectionate with someone who used to be super homophobic and a straight guy + having trauma with said homophobic straight guys really doesn’t help. I’m pretty sure he’s just being as cautious as possible because he doesn’t want to get hurt again…

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    omagadpoko October 26, 2024 8:13 pm

    Also as someone who finds it hard to show affection, this might just be the case which is still completely valid and when you rarely show affection, it’s quite hard to start again in such a short amount of time

    =)) October 26, 2024 10:41 pm

    but then i don't see why would he agree to date him

    omagadpoko October 27, 2024 6:24 am
    but then i don't see why would he agree to date him =))

    My guess is that Garam still likes him so he agreed that they will date and maybe he just expected that Jaehyuk would be patient and understand why he is being so cautious

    =)) October 27, 2024 7:41 pm
    My guess is that Garam still likes him so he agreed that they will date and maybe he just expected that Jaehyuk would be patient and understand why he is being so cautious omagadpoko

    i think that jaehyuk would be that way but garam doesn't tell him anything or how he is feeling so to jaehyuk it's confusing and it just seems that his own bf doesn't want to be affectionate with him

    omagadpoko October 27, 2024 9:51 pm
    i think that jaehyuk would be that way but garam doesn't tell him anything or how he is feeling so to jaehyuk it's confusing and it just seems that his own bf doesn't want to be affectionate with him =))

    I agree with this!! I was just trying to explain how it might be difficult from Garam’s perspective