The age gap

dead October 26, 2024 1:55 pm

He's 19 right? (Correct me if im wrong)

When i read this im always wondering, what if the role was reversed? She was young and he was the old one. How would people (readers) react? Would you guys find it okay? Is it acceptable if she was also the one pursuing him?

I myself like age gaps stories, but i see a lot of people doesn't like it especially if the girl is 19-23?

but i dont see one here hating it

im really just thinking. What are your honest thoughts?? (=・ω・=)

Responses
    rosy October 26, 2024 2:00 pm

    He's in his 20s I think since in a past chapter they talked about how he kept repeating grades? Maybe it was just one grade but he seems older than his peers.

    If he was an older male chasing a younger female, it'd be weird depending on the age gap/age range.

    Yuki October 26, 2024 2:58 pm

    I’m guessing he’s around 26-28 years old. Koreans usually finish high school at 18. If they’re going to be a university student, usually they take a gap year to prepare for the entrance exam. There is also the mandatory military for males. Last chapter the uni-kids mentioned that he kept repeating years in uni(?) and that he is older than most of his peers so he might be in his senior year now.

    ♡ skin like peaches ♡ October 26, 2024 3:55 pm

    The lack of backlash for this relationship had to do with him being in his mid-20s, not 19.

    If he was a minor and/or barely legal, people would definitely point that out. But he’s shown to be older compared to his college-aged friends so it’s alright.

    dead October 27, 2024 6:31 am

    Why y'all say different ages in tiktok they said he's 19 in IG he's 22. Y'all say he's 20.

    Anyway its still 10 yr gap. But im not surprised that there is no hate because the role is not reversed

    ♡ skin like peaches ♡ October 27, 2024 6:56 am
    Why y'all say different ages in tiktok they said he's 19 in IG he's 22. Y'all say he's 20. Anyway its still 10 yr gap. But im not surprised that there is no hate because the role is not reversed dead

    We said he’s in his 20s, not that he’s exactly 20. That could be between 20-29.

    We were also giving genuine answers as to why he could be older than an average college student.

    Yuki October 27, 2024 9:59 am
    We said he’s in his 20s, not that he’s exactly 20. That could be between 20-29.We were also giving genuine answers as to why he could be older than an average college student. ♡ skin like peaches ♡

    Right?? They seem like ignoring us when we said that ML is most probably mid 20’s

    I think one reason no one is criticizing the “age gap” right now is that the male lead's age hasn’t been revealed yet. All we know is that he is a college student who has repeated years in school (I’m not sure if it’s high school or university). His year level in college hasn’t been disclosed either.

    However, even if the male lead is in his freshman year of college, assuming he repeated three years in high school, that would make him 21. If he took a gap year for the entrance exam and spent two years in the military before entering college, he could already be 24.