Okay so I get why people have an issue with the lack of verbal consent, but why just now? Wolfgang and Shin’s sexual relationship has been like this ever since they got together. I think cnc is a tricky area in fiction, but my understanding has always been that Shin and Wolfgang both wanted this type of relationship. Shin doesn’t express his feelings well through words and a big part of their dynamic is Wolfgang challenging Shin and pushing his limits to get him to enjoy things and try things differently. They also grew up together and Wolfgang had always seemed to be able to pick up on when something is bothering Shin. I honestly don’t see this as super different and I think if Shin was actually uncomfortable or unhappy then Wolfgang would know.
Okay so I get why people have an issue with the lack of verbal consent, but why just now? Wolfgang and Shin’s sexual relationship has been like this ever since they got together. I think cnc is a tricky area in fiction, but my understanding has always been that Shin and Wolfgang both wanted this type of relationship. Shin doesn’t express his feelings well through words and a big part of their dynamic is Wolfgang challenging Shin and pushing his limits to get him to enjoy things and try things differently. They also grew up together and Wolfgang had always seemed to be able to pick up on when something is bothering Shin. I honestly don’t see this as super different and I think if Shin was actually uncomfortable or unhappy then Wolfgang would know.