I completely get where both Suo and Geon are coming from. I understand why Geon fears having his relationship be public, especially how in Korea not many people can be accepting of same sex relationships (along with his devout parents + the church). So I can say it was wrong of Suo, even though he didn't see it as an issue to keep things discreet, for him to not acknowledge or at least ask for a level of consent in how they should introduce each other in public. I can't say that justifies the way Geon acted at the airport, as in the end Suo just wanted to talk about something that genuinely concerned him. I can also understand if Geon didn't want to mention his past to Suo (since he's long changed and there wasn't a need to at the time), but with the amount of miscommunication building up, if Suo was to ask I don't think Geon should avoid it. Like if I was in Suo's shoes, hearing rumors of your partner's old infamous sex life would clearly make me uncomfortable, so I don't blame him for not wanting to brush this news away like it's nothing. This all resulted from their lack of comunication and not fully trying to get to know each other more. Yet again I can't blame my boys, both of them are just inexperienced and new to this feeling of love, as they both try to figure it out ╮(￣▽￣)╭
I completely get where both Suo and Geon are coming from. I understand why Geon fears having his relationship be public, especially how in Korea not many people can be accepting of same sex relationships (along with his devout parents + the church). So I can say it was wrong of Suo, even though he didn't see it as an issue to keep things discreet, for him to not acknowledge or at least ask for a level of consent in how they should introduce each other in public. I can't say that justifies the way Geon acted at the airport, as in the end Suo just wanted to talk about something that genuinely concerned him. I can also understand if Geon didn't want to mention his past to Suo (since he's long changed and there wasn't a need to at the time), but with the amount of miscommunication building up, if Suo was to ask I don't think Geon should avoid it. Like if I was in Suo's shoes, hearing rumors of your partner's old infamous sex life would clearly make me uncomfortable, so I don't blame him for not wanting to brush this news away like it's nothing. This all resulted from their lack of comunication and not fully trying to get to know each other more. Yet again I can't blame my boys, both of them are just inexperienced and new to this feeling of love, as they both try to figure it out
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