the comments being mad someone doesnt want to get married is insaaaane, hope my partner ne...

Are you gonna be lovers for your entire life without taking on the official title of husband/wife!? Not even court marriage?

girl everyone has reasons to be or not be married. in my country getting married is honestly more of a hassle than profits. the only plus side would be shared bankings/your house downpayment but even those things can be done without marriage these days. calling my girlfriend my wife later on in life doesnt make it any less void bc some wackass priest didnt tell us so.

also never say husband/wife to me ever again

Frrrr like they specifically said wife why would you ignore that on purpose. Also please keep your opinions to yourself not everybody has to do what you think is correct

As in I'm saying ppl will get married IF THEY WANT to. Don't be weird if they don't want to

thanks for the 2nd reply i genuinely thought you were mad at me for a second

Loooollll no I clarified cuz I thought my words were misleading and sure enough

It's completely fine for kotani to not want to marry imo, but the problem is that he dismisses the bottoms feelings towards that subject. If they both have different views of commitment then I don't think the relationship is gonna work out, they should ideally talk over it instead of the fake marriage bs..

its a 12 chapter manga, if you expect them to have a 3 volume conversation on this then maybe its just not what you're looking for. expecting them to immediately sit down and throw everything away to have this conversation is not realistic either. and tho what you say has a point, its exactly the same the other way around. the other guy isnt owed anything by kotani when it comes to changing his feelings on marriage either.

also you clearly do not know what you are talking about with the 'fake marriage bs' as you call it seeing as that in its own shows that kotani is willing to compromise on things and find a way between both their feelings. he admits he should have listened more than assume and comes with an idea that might give the both of them some reassurance. like wtf more do you want from the dude.

Wait I didn't understand, what exactly are they "throwing away" to talk? But yeah you're right when u said that kotani is willing to compromise and that's good, but I really don't see how it would help tbh
I guess we'll just see how it goes

I think he should have known since Uke's been looking for a partner to get married to, he knew that. it just sucks that Uke's been communicating these feelings and he's just dismissing them quite insensitively. he talks like it's no big deal when seme knowssss uke wants to get married. ╥﹏╥