Yeah tbh she is pretty tame for someone raised in countryside sk
Mhm. Aside from full on acceptance. This is the best case scenario they have.
She’s young and seems like the kind of person who will eventually understand. She might not accept it initially but growth takes time and that’s okay.
Hell, in my home country, barely tolerating the existence of lgbt is already seen as being overly progressive. Or just something people don’t acknowledge.
you can really tell from the responses to m-ok who isn't queer and from a homophobic country...
Wdym? She saw them kissing, she knows what that means. She tried to convince herself that it was nothing between them. Then she decides that it best for Kwon to found a wife and she sign him up for a blind date. Can you tell me if it's not a denial then what is? You said she is kind? Kind or being nosy? Because why is she doing something unnecessarily. What if Kwon was not gay and with Ho, he just decides that he doesn't want to have a wife? Again. Unnecessary doing something that she need to. Kwon didn't asked for it.
If that's what happened, then it's okay. But she sign him up for a blind date, she wants to find a wife for him. Did he asked for it? No. Why did she think she need to do that for? Cuz she panicked and in denial. She found out the person she admired the most are kissing guy. So it's better for her to found him a wife lol
I feel like my overall point has been missed.
Tl;dr she’s misguided but isn’t doing anything maliciously. Consider her culture/country and why she may think to intervene in the life of someone she cares about.
“Being nosy” “doing unnecessary shit”. Idk what your life experience has been like but the people in my life (I would hope) would consider an intervention if I was doing something that they thought would ruin my life. Whether I agree with them or not, I know they do it out of love and not malice. And then we can talk it out— which I’m assuming is what will happen in the next chapter and then some learning can be done.
She jumped the gun with her actions. But honestly who hasn’t at some point in their lives? Lol she’s a kid.
Also seeing two men kissing… WE know what that means.
Assuming you’re not from a deeply homophobic country, you might be idk. People from countries like mine would react in disbelief and denial. Especially when it’s with someone they care about.
Blargh. I added an edit to the original comment and now the replies are gone— wtf
Ya’ll hating on someone who was brought up in a society where homosexuality gets you ostracized or worse. The fact she’s not blabbing to everyone and is in her own (misguided) way, trying to help shows she’s actually really kind. And is already reflecting on the fact that her help is likely unwanted.
I don’t know how this situation will develop but the fact she brought up what she saw instead of beating around the bush shows she’s actually a really honest person.
There are varying levels to homophobia. This is barely there. Cause she legitimately cares about him and is worried. She’s going about it the wrong way but she also hasn’t experienced the world outside of her community in KOREA. You know, a country that is pretty anti-lgbt like all Asian countries are.
Edit: my country criminalizes “sodomy” and “trans expression”. There are no LGBT protections at all. Korea isn’t that extreme— though same sex-sex in the military is apparently criminal. SO. Think about it.