She's not that bad

I agree! Whie in other stories this would be the set-up for a villain, I feel like here it's a premise for lessons to be learned. So even though I don't like what she did at all, I do look forward to how it is handled in a way that she can also grow from without being demonized for her current ignorance.

She is annoying at most but like she didn't cause harm.or.did anything to the MC or the mc daughter so like
She need a good talking too and maybe someone to help.her with her internalised homophobia (I'm sure she is a lesbian) and everything will.be ok

I don't think that hate and Vitriol are warranted but people come from a place of "what would I feel of this was happening in real life". In real life, she wouldn't be barely an invenience. She might put a wedge between them and cause major issues. Also, she might be the type to "spread the news without necessarily any malicious intent behind it" because she might ask another adult for advice and expose something that wasn't hers to expose.

Bottom line is, she is so annoying in this story in my opinion and if she were doing this as a real person she would be a hateful bitch.

That real life person people are imagining isn't her though. And not all people in real life would take it that far either. She might be someone who would need to leave the country to stay alive after the stunts she pulled, or she might be someone who sees the error of her ways after a single conversation.

I get that some people are just using her character to vent emotions and frustrations. Fine. I'm not a fan of her either. I just hope they aren't this quick to judge and condemn in real life. Good people do bad things and bad people do good things.

I hope so too but honestly, while I don't judge people when it concerns themselves (who they are with, where they work, what they spend their money on, what they wear, etc.) But the second that person thinks they know better and act on someone else's behalf without consulting them, I'm judging real hard