Sigh

Zhenzhu October 19, 2024 8:34 pm

Y'all never satisfied with whatever Jiho does and y'all never see any fault in Inwoo, it's embarrassing.
Both are complex characters who contributed to this shit they're now in, and even Inwoo who everyone felt indignant on his behalf is now thinking "i wonder if my mother left the country. I wonder if that phonecall Jiho arranged with her will be our last" and it's not in a 'i hope she never appears again' way so lol. Some of the people here are not and will never be ready for the take that Inwoo might actually have overreacted and would rethink what happened and maybe think that talking to his mum wasn't equal to forgiving her.

In any case, I see they haven't talked it out exactly and that Inwoo is resorting to sex again because that's the only way he knows how to express his emotions (it's a common occurrence now) and idk why y'all are pressed they haven't talked like to me it makes sense they won't talk first thing given their personalities. Jiho is so high on his new determination to prove his love for Inwoo and support him any way he can, and Inwoo is riding the high of being loved the way he wished it was expressed to him. Addressing what had happened will force an awkward atmosphere and for now they miss each other too much to want that kind of dump. They will talk about it (hopefully) just doesn't have to be the same exact day they reunite.

Edit: before someone yells "Even if he rethinks it now it doesn't justify what Jiho did!!!!" And yeah it doesn't that's why i never said that.

Edit 2: for everyone saying "leaving his job isn't a big deal!" Bruh he wasn't hoping for you to think so?? He didn't do it to be like 'see how great i am? I did this for you!' and if you think someone doing something like that to care foe their loved one means so then I'm sorry to you for whatever happened in your childhood that led to that sort of thinking. This is just someone who rethought his priorities and adjusted his life accordingly, don't read too much into it.

Responses
    Kiki October 19, 2024 11:48 pm

    They hated Jesus because he told the truth. Speak your mind

    Knkz97 October 20, 2024 2:22 pm

    They are too biased with what happened before and somehow couldn't accept his form of redemption, I think.

    I honestly don't know what they are looking for Jiho's redemption. Talking about the problem has never been the only type of communication, especially in love. Imho, it's not like Jiho is brushing off everything that happened or they have argued until now, but he is trying to communication his acre and love by trying to understand Inwoo more, to be with him more, to make him feel loved and reduce the loneliness because now he KNOWS that Inwoo is lonely and feels unloved. I think his action right now is much more impactful than just sitting down, and said the word "I'm sorry for bla bla, but I've always love you" because words can be bullshit, but action, at least is more real. Inwoo is insecure. And will an insecure person believes in only words? I don't think so, because they will kept denying, and when their loneliness hit again, they will continue to feel that they are indeed unloved.

    Zhenzhu October 20, 2024 5:31 pm
    They are too biased with what happened before and somehow couldn't accept his form of redemption, I think. I honestly don't know what they are looking for Jiho's redemption. Talking about the problem has never ... Knkz97

    I could kiss you for this

    Knkz97 October 20, 2024 7:31 pm
    I could kiss you for this Zhenzhu

    ٩(///❛ᴗ❛///)۶ hehehe

    Well, the feeling's the same cuz reading ur comment made me feel glad that there's still people who tried to understand Jiho's and Inwoo's personality and how realistic the author is as they made them imperfect and flawed. The Jiho who is insensitive to Inwoo's feelings as he grew up in a relatively loving family and the awkward and insecure Inwoo who cannot express his emotion well because of lack of love in his entire life.

    Jiho is wrong (I'm pissed off too at some point) but it was somehow inevitable to happen because of how different they are. So, Inwoo is also at some fault for the whole thing to go south. Yet, Jiho is not without redemption... and right now he is trying in a new way that will make Inwoo feel loved once again.

    magicmushrooms November 2, 2024 10:10 am

    heavy on the “Some of the people here are not and will never be ready for the take that Inwoo might actually have overreacted” part. a lot of people here have trouble accepting the fact that you can have a mental illness and still have faults. like, you can hurt someone and your mental illness does not make that okay. doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a horrible person, just means that you did something wrong like a normal person. not at all saying jiho wasn’t wrong btw (bc ik someone will twist my comment lmao)