I was hoping for the girl to be seme's end game

Ewww. Then read straight shit and dont come here.

I didn't say I'd rather they end up ONLY coz she's a girl-- I liked her character better than the uke that's why I said that, if she was another boy, my point remains the same-- I'd still want him to end up with the seme than the uke here. Dafuq u have no reading comprehension, dude?

You're exactly the kind of bad apple that give a bad name to the BL community coz you fetishize MLM so much that you can't even stand the possibility of having a good het pairing in a BL story (and yes, it does happen whether it's tragic where one marries a girl in the end, or the side couple is het, this kind of pairing does happen even in a BL)

Exactly like I see soooo many bad hetero stories where the man has more chemistry with another man but these kinda ppl will just ignore it and won't say a thing. But God forbid, everything not be perfect in a BL, then they will start wanting the man to end up with a woman. Like yes, please just go and read some str8 manga because there probably are ones that you will like instead of wishing that a man ends up with a woman in a BL

another rotten one, I see. did you even understand what I posted? you're just like that first brat who commented, honestly, such kid-like mindsets, it's like you just discovered BL and you're hang up on making everything that LOL. I'm a fan of this genre too, check out my profile if you want and you will see that virtually everything on my lists' exclusively BL, but despite that, I know a good plot and a good character when I see one, I don't delude myself that it's good just coz it's mlm and I don't discriminate on gender either .

Point exactly where I said I wanted them to end up coz it's a girl x boy pairing? if this was shoujo and everything is reversed where the uke is a girl and the girl in this story was a boy who was feeling up his chances with the ML, I will still ship him with the ML because I would still think the FL in that story sucks as just like the uke in this story sucks ass. It's not because they're a het pairing that I ship them, you could have that character be another boy, a trans, a frog, an apache helicopter- it wouldn't matter coz they'd still be a far better match to the ML than the toxic ass uke here, the seme deserves someone better than a whiny egocentric bish who can't take an L.

This is not the toxic story that you are making it out to be and the girl that you mentioned literally knows him for a very short time. They aren't even dating they are just trying to get to know each other. Also it is hinted at the initial few chapters that the seme is gay by the seme himself so wanting him to end up with a girl is just weird. He never expressed any romantic interest in the girl he was trying to move on but he couldn't ultimately catch feelings for her at all.

You can call me as many names as you want but doing all that is not going to change the fact you are doing too much over a normal story about growth and you're just bitter it's gay. To me it seems that even though you claim to like BL you are one of those homophobic fujoshis who would rather a man ends up with a random woman who he has known for a few days rather than a man who he has been in love with for years. Like yes the uke was shitty to him but he owned up to it later and he overcame his problems and if the seme is ok with that then that's his call because what the uke dod wasn't so unforgivable and that is what the story is about.

this uke literally used seme to feel better about himself, lashed out on him for no good reason, took it upon himself to see seme as competition when all the other guy did was breathe right next to him and do better output, ran away claiming he hates seme with no other explanation, goes no-contact for weeks, months even despite knowing the seme would worry about him and you call that not toxic? also, you claim he overcame his problem, lol where? he didn't communicate any of that shiz to seme, only we readers are aware of his "reflections", you call that one shitty panel where they met on the snow and he said I'm sorry "overcoming his problems"? LMAO, well I guess that's better than nothing but that wasn't communication at all, that was just him shooting his shot and being fortunate enough that the seme's a simp so he easily took him back.

Also, how dafuq is liking a character to end up with someone that's better for them homopohobic bish? it just so happened that the character was a girl this time, I couldn't care less whatever gender they are so long as they still have that same personality and character trait. You're just one of those creeps who villainize het coupling coz it doesn't fit in with your fetishistic way of seeing mlm. Folks like fr you're no better than those shitheads who say "gross" to mlm or wlw pairing in straight works, matter of fact ya'll both from the same sewer water for me, different streams but same sewer water still. Another thing, yeah the girl started off as someone random, but the seme himself called out to her when she was about to give up the first time, they spent time together and at that point she was no longer random at least to seme, the time when uke went no-contact, he spent all that with the girl, the author just didn't waste more panels on showing them hanging out together to focus on uke's pov which is understandable and makes more sense.

Great idc if you call me homophobic as a defence because you have no other point but I don't read str8 fiction tho I do think you should go back to reading it if you're that desperate for hetero pairings. Also don't you people have words other than fetishize romanticise sexualise??? Like just using the same words over and over and saying "Nuhuh I'm not homophobic you are!!" is not an argument.

Also u say u don't care what gender but you're still over here fighting me and wanting the hinted gay character to end up with a woman and calling me a fetishizer for saying that's weird. Like that is actual fetishization( wanting gay men to like women) not the other way around. Also I said that uke overcame his problems because he doesn't do the same shit he did before so to me that is overcoming because it isn't a bother for him or his bf anymore. I don't think the uke was "using" him by dating him honestly and it is literally shown that the seme is aware of the imbalance in their relationship in the further chapters and still choses to continue it.

Honestly I don't want to argue any further call me a fetishizer, whatever I don't care anyways

wtf, now I'm convinced you're some kid who got access to the net reading stuff you're not supposed to, absolutely no reading comprehension at all, did I sa I wanted them to end up coz the pairing would be straight? I said it over and over in case your puny little head still can't wrap itself around it- THE GENDER DOES NOT MATTER-- I like the character, I feel like it's better for the seme, so I wanted them to end up together, very simply, very basic, even a crayon-eating toddler can understand that.

Also when did I call you homophobic? I said you're no better than those you say shit like that in straight works not that you are one, it's you who jumped the gun and called me that without even providing proof on how I became homophobic in the first place like even now your substance is still shallower than puddle. I mean you even argue that the uke never used the seme, there was an actual legit panel in the actual freaking work with him admitting it, did you even read it for real? also, the seme understood the imbalance? are you for real? the seme exhibited traits of someone in the spectrum, he wouldn't get relationship imbalance even if it slaps him in the face, he just wanted the uke and went for it, as straightforward as any other folk in the spectrum would.

Another thing, you just admitted that you only read gay stuff, if that isn't fetishization then I don't know what is LOL, even actual people in the LGBT consume both gay AND straight materials, it's creeps like you who revolve yourself around one thing and then say "oh it's just a preference" piss off fr you're the type to give my gay friends the heeby jeevies coz you'd most likely be looking at them with malice all the time. You don't wanna argue anymore or you can't? coz so far all your answer has been circling back to your first one and you offered no substantial rebuttal at all.

I'm gay, I only read gay stuff wlw and mlm
Thinking that gay ppl have to read str8 stuff is weird.
It's not like I haven't read it. Used to read it in the past

Will not be saying anything else on this matter cuz I'm done but just wanted to clarify because I don't want to be perceived as a heterosexual

lol, just coz you're gay doesn't excuse u from being a pos, so what if you're one? I am too, lots of my friends are too, and lots of my friends are straight as well, that's why I can say with confidence that normal, average people in the LGBT (and even hets) do read both gay and straight stuffs, that's just how it is, you enjoy the content as is. You're only using that as a last resort excuse to justify your weird ass creepy preference LMAO.

Fr I agree with you like if you're in relationship you should be more open to each other

I agree that the trait is toxic but counter-argument about it being childish and not something an adult does. That's not true. Imposter syndrome is such a real feeling and it is very hard to shake-off. It's built into a person's personality foundation because their parents, peers, and sometimes their own self-worth builds it. Uke literally couldn't see that he does have a talent. His excellent talent with animation was mentioned countless times but he kept focusing on modelling. He wants to makes game and some point forgot that there is more to making a game than modelling because of how tunnel-visioned he got. Him lashing out at Kaname was really him self-sabotaging. His jealousy made it so that he couldn't even recognize that he loved Kaname. He didn't just sabotage his relationshil but his career too because he couldn be No. 1 and to him, that was equivalent to being worth nothing at all.

Again, negative, self-loathing thoughts are extremely hard to shake-off to a perfectionist with imposter syndrome. It takes a lot of time, and therapy for those that have access, to undo those unhealthy habits but that's precisely why I like the characters. So I agree that the character is toxic and that Kaname probs should have moved on instead of being hurt while Misaki tries to evolve himself, but I think that's what beautiful about it. There ARE people that stay.

What I don't agree with is you bashing real life people for having something they cannot control. It's enough that there are people in the comment section, myself included, with negative thoughts that haunt us every day. I go to therapy, other people do too, some don't or never self-realize. They need help not you being cynical to make a one-up because you dislike the character. Both the characters were really well-written and extremely realistic so yes, they are complex. That's what complex is - the good mixing with the bad, toxic parts included

lol so wat? everyone is battling their own struggles, but that doesn't mean u get to be a dick to someone because u believe wat ur feeling and going through is worse than them, I have been subjected to that kind of mindset personally and it's not a good feeling at all. Empathy can only go so far, don't care if you even have cancer- if ur a pos, ur a pos, the illness doesn't give u clearance on that.

I applaud u for making an effort in acknowledging ur feelings and doing something to change, but I stand by wat I said, the girl character was the better choice, and not just because she's a girl but because she's more stable and can give better development and insight to the seme who himself is shown to be neurodivergent. You said it yourself, he (uke) acted out because he was "self-sabotaging" ok and how was that the seme's fault? it's all on the uke, he couldn't process his emotions well enough that he hurt another person to satiate his emotions instead-- a proper, well-developed adult don't typically do that to others, specially to a loved one.

You say that it's beautiful that the seme stayed, sure coz it's fiction and the abuser eventually realized his feelings and turned 180 by the end of the story, but if this was irl it's just stupidity. That's the same kinda mindset that people in abusive/toxic relationship has for staying - that maybe they can fix them, that maybe they'll change someday, or their feelings will get reciprocated, and wat do they get? only misery and regret, sometimes it even costs their lives. Not saying that a person who chose to stay by someone in their hard times is impossible to succeed, but it's a rarity, which is why it gets sensationalized when it does happen.