
Nah, I pointed out that line one coz some of my uncles were in the military (he's an ass tbh), then his son went in there as well, two years later, he never wanted to go back. Heard complaints of power abuse and whatnot as well as a few horrendous things. Reports just resulted to verbal sermons but mostly just ignored. His dad said he's acting too much of a pansy and then started the "back in my day" thingo. Worst thing we heard in his monologue is sexual harassment and abuse, yes, we go the the "r-word" zone, and how they were told to just deal with it and man up like it's just a mosquito bite.
TLDR, knew people who experienced it, knew people who saw worse than it, got hit by the "back in my day" in the end.
Either way it still happens, I don't think it's that common anymore considering the updated military rules and stuff, tho it will still depends on the ranking of the abusing officer. (And then there's also the varying cultures of different countries, so we don't know how it goes for others.)

Ahhh I get what you’re trying to say it now. Thank youuu.
Glad that it’s not common but that’s still horrible. Sometimes, I don’t understand why society keeps telling men to ‘man up,’ even though they can be harassed too, just like women.. cuz of mindset like this it discourages men from seeking help when they face issues like harassment, mental health struggles, or emotional distress. kinda make me mad and sad tbh (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
He’s a M..and I don’t really mind the kink at all.
But what I really take issue with is the way the upper-ranking soldier treats those below him with disrespect. We don’t care about what happened during your time, Commander! What a loser. Is this kind of abuse really common in military life?