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Genuine answer: you go to events that support your hobbies and find friends or romantic interests there. Actually talk to people and get acquainted with them. If you find it hard to find a lover without getting friendzoned, then go to clubs specifically for matchmaking parties. If you're an introvert, use dating apps or join social media groups for matchmaking
Unserious answer: give up and become delusional
HOW THE FUCK DO YOU FIND SOMEONE TO DATE