what is this heat for.

supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 11:51 am

her name isn't "that girl." her name is mi-ok and it seems her nosy immaturity is triggering the audience real bad. try to remember she's someone haebeom cares about a lot. basically his baby sister. she's only projecting due to whatever happened to her in seoul- most likely involving feelings for another girl that ended in ouch. save that rage for when/if she causes real harm. something so small should not be snapping y'all so.

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    BamBam October 16, 2024 11:59 am

    wait something happened in Seoul?

    you tweeted this October 16, 2024 12:00 pm

    for reals, not that we're acknowledging what she did was right though. and it's a simple mistake cause by immaturity or "maybe experience" but at least she did not steal him or manipulate them. people can learn a thing or two from their mistakes, we should just let her grow up. people need to calm tf down.

    you tweeted this October 16, 2024 12:02 pm
    wait something happened in Seoul? BamBam

    nothing YET, but probably something... since she's a college student.

    XxXxX October 16, 2024 12:06 pm
    wait something happened in Seoul? BamBam

    Iirc when bom went over to fix her sink/shower a couple of chapters ago, she was asking him all kinds of dating questions but gave vague answers when bom turned it around on her and asked her the same stuff. It was implied based on her questioning and vague answers that she was either in love with another girl and it went south or starting to develop a crush on one and didn’t know how to proceed since it was also implied that her home life was also stressing her out. One of her answers was that she didn’t have time to date because she was too busy working, schooling, and taking care of her grandma.

    XxXxX October 16, 2024 12:09 pm

    Ikr . Some are really triggered over her actions here but I don’t really see her actions as a threat. Knowing how mature both leads are due to their experiences, this is nothing to them.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:10 pm
    wait something happened in Seoul? BamBam

    it was in one of the first chapters of the season. do you remember after mi-ok first found out they're lovers how she kept bugging haebeom about why he doesn't have a girlfriend? he just brushed it off and said he doesn't know what happened but whenever she's ready to talk about it, he'll be around. I trust his judgment bc he's level headed and great w kids plus he watched her grow up, even took part in some of the raising himself so it was probably obvious to him that her heart was aching.

    gwga October 16, 2024 12:11 pm

    I agree as someone who's gay and dealt with people like Mi-ok, she was definitely annoying me and I wouldn't say this was small because it was disrespectful towards haebeom and his partner. but nothing real bad or something that can't be fixed happened, so people are overreacting. they're acting like she's a demonic child but she's just a kid that grew up in a conservative country. So she's not used to homosexual relationships obviously she wouldn't react the best. Mi-ok's uneducated/ignorant not evil like people are acting. Mi-ok only did what's most logical to her in order to protect haebeom which is basically an older brother to her. I'm excited to see how the author deals with this because we're definitely going to see Mi-ok become more educated and understanding of homosexual relationships, the author never disappoints.

    real (idek) October 16, 2024 12:26 pm

    Well actually I am pretty sure giving someones number and personal information without their a consultation is illegal. Does anyone even view her as a threat? I feel people are more mad because:
    1. She is unnecessarily trying to pry into someones PERSONAL business
    2. She gave out someones personal information and number without their consent. If she cares for him so much she shouldn't have betrayed him as such.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:29 pm
    for reals, not that we're acknowledging what she did was right though. and it's a simple mistake cause by immaturity or "maybe experience" but at least she did not steal him or manipulate them. people can learn... you tweeted this

    legit! this is the kinda anger I'd have if she say, hypothetically, forged an email from beom to one of his exes that got her to come down in hopes of rekindling their past love or something yanno.. but trying to get him married? that just tells me she wants him to be happy and doesn't understand yet ( reasonably so considering) that happiness is something as simple as eating overcooked food bc that certain someone made it themself. this kinda thing, albeit misguided, is genuinely such a small annoyance.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:30 pm
    Ikr . Some are really triggered over her actions here but I don’t really see her actions as a threat. Knowing how mature both leads are due to their experiences, this is nothing to them. XxXxX

    they're going to be more concerned about what led her to do something so silly more than anything else guaranteed

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:31 pm
    Well actually I am pretty sure giving someones number and personal information without their a consultation is illegal. Does anyone even view her as a threat? I feel people are more mad because:1. She is unnece... real (idek)

    you're forgetting he's the village chief. a literal political figure. his contact information is already public knowledge.

    real (idek) October 16, 2024 12:34 pm
    you're forgetting he's the village chief. a literal political figure. his contact information is already public knowledge. supercalifragilistically

    And she gave his personal information to a matchmaking company.
    That's literally without his consent. I think I pretty much specified "without his consultation" there. She quite literally has no right to give his information on a site regarding HIM.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:34 pm
    I agree as someone who's gay and dealt with people like Mi-ok, she was definitely annoying me and I wouldn't say this was small because it was disrespectful towards haebeom and his partner. but nothing real bad... gwga

    as a lesbian milennial myself, I honestly find mi-ok endearing. from experience, there are many people who project internalised homophobia at extreme levels but this is definitely not that. honestly if I was haebeom, I would hug her tight and tell her gay or straight it truly doesn't matter. we all feel the same things when we trip in love.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 12:41 pm
    And she gave his personal information to a matchmaking company. That's literally without his consent. I think I pretty much specified "without his consultation" there. She quite literally has no right to give h... real (idek)

    my siblings also do silly things like try to set me up or push me to date when I'm single for awhile. tis the trials of the agegap eldest sibling. it is simply what little ones do.

    real (idek) October 16, 2024 12:51 pm
    my siblings also do silly things like try to set me up or push me to date when I'm single for awhile. tis the trials of the agegap eldest sibling. it is simply what little ones do. supercalifragilistically

    Yeah, that's when you're single right? But she is aware that he isn't. I know she has good intentions but she should have atleast talked with him even if once. In your case you dont mind when your siblings do silly things like that, but if it were my siblings I would definitely be offended if they do so without asking me.
    Mi-ok here doesn't know fully how Haebom might feel about her doing this. I hope they have a proper conversation to resolve this issue along with Sung.

    you tweeted this October 16, 2024 1:06 pm
    as a lesbian milennial myself, I honestly find mi-ok endearing. from experience, there are many people who project internalised homophobia at extreme levels but this is definitely not that. honestly if I was ha... supercalifragilistically

    thank you.

    chocobuun October 16, 2024 1:08 pm
    my siblings also do silly things like try to set me up or push me to date when I'm single for awhile. tis the trials of the agegap eldest sibling. it is simply what little ones do. supercalifragilistically

    Ngl it’s kinda weird your responses to giving out personal info without permission is so dismissive. Just cause it’s normal for you and you don’t care, doesn’t mean it’s concerning. Maybes it’s cause you view the dude as grown and big so he can protect himself just fine, but if it were a smaller person or woman, you’d probably be more concerned the person’s info is being shared without permission due to the possible danger of weird individuals making contact.

    I get that you’re not concerned now, but when given a valid reason for it to be concerning, you then get dismissive like it’s not a big deal. Just cause it’s public info (which is general shared only to the residents in the area), doesn’t mean it’s okay?? It’s different when the person themself is being contacted from a company they do not want to converse with. Anyways, as an older sibling- what you said about your experience isn’t normal to most. My younger brother would never give out my contact info like that or sign me up for stuff without my knowledge. That’s really potentially dangerous even if they’re young and don’t understand.

    chocobuun October 16, 2024 1:08 pm
    my siblings also do silly things like try to set me up or push me to date when I'm single for awhile. tis the trials of the agegap eldest sibling. it is simply what little ones do. supercalifragilistically

    Doesn’t mean it’s not* concerning

    you tweeted this October 16, 2024 1:17 pm
    Yeah, that's when you're single right? But she is aware that he isn't. I know she has good intentions but she should have atleast talked with him even if once. In your case you dont mind when your siblings do s... real (idek)

    that's definitely what's gonna happen. i get why people are mad at her and find her annoying, but why to the point like they treat her as some villainess and overly homophobic btch. why make their reactions topnotch lmao. It's a forgivable mistake. for sure even mr. kwon and haebeom will explain things to her and forgives her. ngl, we experienced much worse than what she's doing.

    supercalifragilistically October 16, 2024 1:20 pm
    Ngl it’s kinda weird your responses to giving out personal info without permission is so dismissive. Just cause it’s normal for you and you don’t care, doesn’t mean it’s concerning. Maybes it’s caus... chocobuun

    mmmmm. no. my siblings would never hand out my personal information. did I say somewhere that it wasn't dangerous? also. well. yes. I'm putting myself in haebeom's shoes. that's called empathy.