Well girl, ur bf is the problem here. He keeps leaving her space for hope that's why she thinks she has a chance with him. And he runs to her for help when u two hv a problem, seriously? Why doesn't he try talking it out with u instead of running to a stranger? If he set proper boundaries with her, u wouldn't be worrying about this. It's basic decency to keep the distance with someone yk has a crush on u when ur in a relationship with someone else. Ur man has no respect for u.
I think u should talk about this to ur bf first. Tell him to cut her off, straight to his face. If he doesn't, leave him. That ain't ur soulmate or wtv, girl. U don't want to marry a man who makes u jealous of other girls instead of making other girls jealous of u.
I would have a more in-depth conversation. Its important that you and your partner communicate boundaries. Personally, if my partner was friends with a person who liked them I would be a bit frustrated, as that would be a bit of a breach of trust. But, once again, try to talk to him more about how it makes you uncomfortable; If he doesn't respect your viewpoint, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.
If the girl likes him, HE knows she likes him and YOU know that she likes him, then WHY THE HELL is she still interacting with him??? She wants your man and aparently its not as one sided as he would like you to think.
Your boyfriend should respect y’all’s relationship, he wouldn’t enjoy it if it was the other way around. Sorry as someone who’s seen this pattern way too many times… If this continues and he doesn’t put proper boundaries, leave. No man is worth your peace. Know your worth.
KILL BOTH OF THEM!!!
she's not just a friend babes, she's the girl he prioritizes over you by bonding with her over your guys problems. dump his ass now before you screw yourself over by trusting his dumbass. he likes the validation. heck even when I'm single and someone I thought was a friend confesses to me I'd feel too uncomfortable to continue to be friends with them. and I'm single lol what does that say about him
I’m assuming he was the one who spoke to you about her liking him?
He may not be cheating, but you have to take a step back and look at their intentions.
Why does she feel it’s okay to share her feelings with someone who has a partner? What does she look to gain from it?
Why does he allow someone in his space that has expressed romantic interest in him? What does he stand to gain from it?
Are either of them considering you? Why not?
I think the best thing you can do is sit on it. Ask yourself these questions, and afterwards have a talk with them.
I hope it works out for you bbg
I recently found out that my boyfriend made a new friend who was a girl. She apparently likes him and he already knows that. They’ve talked in call for hours and whenever he has a problem with me he runs to her for help. She’s even given him gifts and stalked my instagram. I’m not sure about her intentions because the only time i’ve met her she’s given me a bad look. What should i do in this situation?